Is it normal to hate ur friend for being negative about ur bf?

I've been with my bf for about 8 months and I moved about half an hour away and me and him barely get to see each other, but we do text a lot and call each other. A few days ago I talked to my friend and she said that me and him need to break up cause my move was basically telling me that we aren't meant to be together and that it is stupid to try to stay together. But everytime I see him our relationship gets stronger, even though I miss him more each time I go home. I'm in 10th grade and this is my most serious relationship ever, and I can actually see myself marrying him and growing old with him. And since my friend told me that i needed to break up with him i havent talked to her. I feel like she was just trying to hurt me cuz she has only been negative about my relationship with him since me and him started dating. She acts like her relationship is perfect and everyone else shouldn't have a partner. Is it normal that I can't stand talkin to her anymore? And that I don't want to be her friend anymore? And that I hate her for being negative about my relationship?

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Based on 44 votes (26 yes)
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  • IrishPotato

    Your friend sounds like someone has the opposite of a perfect relationship. Frankly, I think she's a bit jealous because she sees your happy with someone else, and you aren't happy with just her. (I know, weird logic.)

    Atleast, that is my opinion.

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  • kellstar79

    A word of advice from someone who finished high school years ago. Don't ever give up a friend for a guy! Tell your friend how it makes you feel and if they still do it anyway then make a decision about your friendship. It is possible to meet your life partner in high school bit it's rarely the case and giving up friends for a guy is usually not a good thing. Long distance relationships do and can work and 30minutes away is hardly far

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    • IrishPotato

      30 minutes away is not a long distance relationship.

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  • Thewomanizer

    boyfriEND, friEND, get it!! never lasts forever sadly!

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  • CheyChey

    He's just a boyfriend and this is your friend & friends hang around a lot longer than boyfriends, well mostly anyway. you're still only in 10th grade you have loads instore for you boyfriends & such & such. if i were you i wouldn't hate my friend she's looking out for you meaning she loves you if she didn't care she would not have voiced out her opinion, we all need a friend to tell you what you do not want to hear, friends over bros.

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  • sleepyhead

    maybe she knows something you dont

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  • Ibelievethis

    Why are you worried about what your friend thinks. The main thing is is that you're happy together forget what other people think, they're not going out with him. xx

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  • Who_Fan4Life

    What's a 'ur' friend and 'ur' boyfriend?

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    • Ibelievethis

      ur is short for your. x

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