Is it normal to hate the person you are dating?
50% of the time I think I love her, but the other 50% I'm pretty sure I hate her.
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50% of the time I think I love her, but the other 50% I'm pretty sure I hate her.
Why people do this I don't understand. If you do like her most of the time see if you can work it out to where yous both equally like each other and aren't negatively staying together. The ones that flirt with friends / strangers when with you, etc. aren't seriously commted in the relationship. Best to just drop the relationship and move on to another person. The whole " I just flirt " stuff is bullshit. I would only accept it in an open relationship. If the person you are with isn't going to have mutual communication & respect for you then your just going to be played like a fool.
Then, why are you in a relationship with her? What's the point of dating someone you hate?
Why be with someone you hate half the time. Dump her and look for someone your at the least indifferent to.
if its 50% love and 50% hate, or if its become so divided that you have gotten to the point of asking for external help...
Its time to confront her about the half of her you hate. if you guys are really meant to be together she might be able to find a way to make you give the love a great share of the percentage.
We can't rally expect ourselves to find THE perfect boyfriend or girlfriend can we? Sure we can be picky and choosy, but that certainly doesn't help finding mr and mrs perfect (Brangelina Poliett)