Is it normal to hate sex?

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I'm an underage male, and I've found that I hate sex. I don't exactly hate it, it's just that I dislike it when people are perverted, I dislike it when people masturbate, I dislike people who have sex at a young age, and I find the point of doing it just for pleasure a bit annoying. I guess it's maybe that I hang around with a bit older people and I'm jealous that I can't have sex yet, or something of the sorts, I'm not exactly sure what caused it.

Anyway, I was on a chat site called Omegle a few days ago due to boredom, and I met this guy who I discussed my hate for sex with. He was talking about how my hate for sex is not normal and that I need to see a doctor because he thought I wouldn't ever have a normal relationship. It was a really deep conversation with a lot of questions, and he seemed to know what he was talking about. That really bothered me, but I kind of let it know until a few nights ago when I came across this video on Youtube about this show with Tyra Banks and this 18 year old pornography star. It was posted under this Anti-Pornography channel, so I would expect it to say bad things about sex, but one of the things it said bothered me some more. See what it said for yourselves, because I can't exactly explain it. Read the text at 1:36 of this video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BxUq_zzvAaA
I've masturbated to porn when I was younger (pretty young to be looking at porn I have to say, though I don't like giving out my age), and what was said in that video worried me.

Anyway, point is, I'd like to know if it's normal for me to hate sex, and if I'll still be a normal human being in the future with a healthy sex life and relationship. Thanks in advance.

Also, sorry for this post being a bit of a mess, I'm pretty tired right now...

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  • pandabear1209
    13 years ago

    Are you a virgin? perhaps you hate sex because your uncomfortable with the idea, it embarresses you. Don't knock it til you've tried it

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  • 1000yrVampireKing
    11 years ago

    Why is it your decision if people masturbate? No it is not normal and it is not your choice. Why are you watching them masturbate? That shows you are a sicko and to get out of the restroom. Unless they are committing lude acts in front of you and touching them self in public why care?

    Having sex at a young age creates a range of problems money wise as well. If you don't like porn do not watch it. If you do not like it stop talking about it. If you do not like masturbation DO NOT MASTURBATE! You are being hypocritical and I do not see how making you dictator of masturbation is any less perverted.

    You sound like you are obsessed and just do not want to admit it so take your frustration on the rest of us. Now Child porn is illegal in a lot of places and illegally made porn. Like when they capture women and force them into this kind of thing but a lot of these women volunteer.

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  • Weegee123
    13 years ago

    I tried responding the other day but I'm not sure what happened to my comment, but I'll try to sort of recreate it.

    Thank you guys so much for responding, you all really made me feel better about myself. problemchild and Eva_Braun88, I know that when I'm in a relationship with someone, I won't hate having sex then, because that's normal. I guess I wasn't exactly specific enough last time...either way, I still think that my views on masturbating and such won't change that much, but I don't exactly see that as bad. pandabear1209, I am a virgin, and I am pretty embarrassed by it at the moment, but I don't think that's the only reason I dislike it at this point.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Well, for one thing, Omegle is full of a bunch of horny creeps that are probably phsycotic. Second, it's completely normal to dislike mastrubating because I also thing that it's stupid. Third, you may not like sex now, but maybe when you get married you will change your mind. So basically, hating sex now is completely normal.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Ya, its understandable. Just try to open up to the idea a little bit more. Your fine. That guy online didnt know what he was talking about.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    If you hate sex, then don't expect to ever have a relationship.

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