Is it normal to hate relationships!?

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I hate relationships!
I dont hate many things but relationships are one of the things I cant stand.
It is not because of one I have been in but it is because of relationships my friends have been in. They always end up hurt and me comforting them. I don't wanna deal with any of that. Drama, Drama, DRAMA!!! They don't seem worth all the stress! I am 18 and just wanna have fun! Relationships seem like a waste of money, time, and loyalty. What do I get out of it? I have sex, don't need it. I am loved, don't need it. I have people to talk to, don't need it.
Is this Normal or am I just crazy?!

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Based on 80 votes (56 yes)
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  • sir.kirk
    13 years ago

    90% of relation ships are bullshit anyway. But the thought of a perfectly matching soul mate somewhere out there keeps me comin in and getting out of them. To find someone who you WANT to wake up beside every morning and that life is just better whenthey are around is inspiring to keep on searching despite all the bull shit, and maybe it'll take you finding that person to realize it. Good luck, you sound great.

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  • DanB
    12 years ago

    The thing about relationships...it's more then sex, and talking to someone. When it's genuine attraction on both parts and you guys really like each other then it's amazing. One ups everything else you've done. Simply because it's on a different level. You don't Just deal with the person. He/she doesn't just enjoy your company. They crave you, and you crave them.

    And sure break ups lead to drama and all that crap but if your mature about it usually the other person will be. No one wants to be the screaming baby pointing fingers.

    But I agree with one of the previous posts. You may not be leading a life where your leaving yourself open and available to anyone that would wanna take you as a person they can be with. If your having sex and talking to everyone the way you would with a bf/gf then all you are to potential guys that would wanna date you is a lay or at least try. Your probs meeting the wrong types of guys which lead to your thinking like this because of the vibe you give off.

    Sorry this is so long. I've always been a big dater and so I understand why girls don't wanna date. It's tough to find someone and even tougher to make relationships work. But never say it's not worth it. There is a reason people have been coupling off since the start of time.

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  • DurazStrike
    13 years ago

    Congratulations, you reached enlightenment.

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  • soulflyer9
    14 years ago

    i get what your saying, and people find love, end up living together for thirty years, having children, and still don't get married. and i respect that. but if you haven't actually BEEN in a relationship yourself, you shouldn't judge it by other peoples reactions. if you get into one and don't like it, then just don't do it anymore! but you'll never know if you don't try.

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