Is it normal to hate people who are loved by many people
Is it normal to hate people that are loved by majority of the people.
| yes, it's normal | 7 | |
| no, not at all normal | 4 | |
| you are just jealous | 13 | |
| you have something else going on in your mind | 1 |
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my_life_my_way
You’re just jealous and it’s normal. Everyone feels jealousy and hatred towards those who have things they don’t, especially if they’re assholes about it.
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Somenormie
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ellnell
Depends. Some of those people are very fake and if you can sense that then it's normal. But if they're just genuienly nice and therefore easy to get along with it's probably jealousy.
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randypete
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GuvnorsOtherWoman
It's perfectly normal. But I don't 'get' the jealousy line. Why would someone be jealous of someone they hate? Why would you want to be like someone if you don't like them?
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bbrown95
Is there a specific reason you hate them other than the fact that they are loved by many people? Is it because you perceive them to be fake/two-faced or have ulterior motives and ultimately don't trust them, for example?
Do you crave what they have, to be liked by multiple people, and maybe are a bit resentful that they have it and you don't? Are you insecure and does it bother you that they are more "popular" than you?
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Anonymous Post Author
No, I don't want to be liked by a lot of people. And I don't crave attention coz I like keeping a low profile.
They are pretenders and take advantage of those who love them. I know really good people who deserve that much love but the people have decided to love the wrong persons.
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bbrown95
I definitely get what you're saying. I was just talking to my mom last night about how it seems people tend to not appreciate (and also tend to try to take advantage of) the good people in their lives, while for whatever reason borderline worshipping shitty, two-faced people who treat them like shit and take advantage of them.
I think it is because they actually have to work to earn the approval of the jerkish people, and they don't have to with the people who already care about them or whose approval isn't hard to earn (like down-to-earth people who are generally accepting).
If you're around my age (I'm 25), you've probably noticed it's pretty rampant in our age group, because younger people tend to be more insecure and crave the acceptance of people it's hard to earn it from, or people whose opinions they look to as pretty much gospel (some of these people still haven't outgrown high school and think popularity = person who is better than everyone else, and that being liked by a "popular" person actually means something, or that popularity in general is still important).
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Clunk42