Is it normal to hate people on and off?

In a nutshell, there are a few people in this world I've come to care for. As friends, as people I can trust.

So those people. I care about them. But even then, I can't help but hate. On and off. For no reason. One day I'll be good with them, the next I'll want to tell them to just go rot somewhere and stop tainting the air with their rotten existence. Emotionally, that's how I feel. It's intense. But logically -- I shouldn't do that. Because it will go away in a day, or a few days. The feeling will pass, but it will also come again. My brain tells me not to shove them away because it's wrong. My feelings are burning holes in me and I can't breath with all this venom in my chest.

I've felt this way since I was little. I know when I was in second grade I would frequently vocalize feelings like this because I didn't know better. I learned quickly that I should bite my tongue because it wasn't right.

But is this normal?

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75% Normal
Based on 72 votes (54 yes)
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  • lil

    Yup I get this too, but these people actually do things to annoy me and usually cause it's things I would personally find against my morals, and I'll be mad at them for days and days and sometimes even think "I don't want you in my life", then it goes!!

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  • PoisonFlowers

    Mostly with family. With friends, it's more of an impatience with them than such strong disgust..

    but yes, I get something like that too.

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  • Josie_57

    yeah i get like that with some of my close friends and family. just for a few days i get annoyed and angry with them for no reason, and just want to tell them to f*ck off. but i know that i actually care about them and wouldnt want to lose them. then it goes away and i like them again, its really annoying. id say its normal :)

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