Is it normal to hate one-night stands?

I have had dozens of one-night stands in the distant past. Recently, my girlfriend dumped me and I was upset. I went out and had three seperate one-night stands with girls I met. It was easy as these girls were all over me! However, I didn't really want to have random sex with girls I don't know. I always feel like an idiot afterward. Why do I do it even though I hate one-night stands?

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  • jerseydevil

    As I got older I learned to hate the one night stands. Sex is so much better with a woman I know and care about. One night stands are basically masturbation. That's why you do it. it's just a release.

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  • Humans were not meant to be promiscuous. Immorality will always make you unhappy, no matter how much people try to philosophize the issue away.

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  • wreckd

    I've had a couple in my past. Its fun at the time but when you wake up, its like, really? The fact is, most likely you know nothing about these random women and that can be a scary thing. The sweetest girl could have a venereal disease or AIDs. Thats all that would run through my mind constantly.

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  • Vetterman

    Alot of men dont realize this, but sex and emotions are very closely tied together. Your just coming into that.

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  • ghostmau5

    as you get older, you come to appreciate serious relationships even more. instead of thinking with your dick, you start thinking with (as cliche as this sounds) your heart.

    Congrats! It just means you're growing up. If you still have one-night stands, just make sure you're safe about it.

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  • Inspector019

    You are acting immature, and being weak minded. You clearly don't know how to deal with your emotions maturely. Try writing more and fucking less ...

    S's, T's & D's are better on paper!

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  • Sabaky

    No offense but.... Ur acting like a man whore

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  • --ash--

    You're an idiot!

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  • darren3

    I love sex and I love one night stands.

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  • halfemptyhalffull

    You do it because you're lonely/horny/like attention/like to be liked.
    We all feel these things to varying degrees.
    You feel like "an idiot" after because its filling a short-term need (not a long-term/fulfilling need)

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  • megadriver

    Why the hell not! I've done it too, but there are risks. You can't know everything about your partner. That is what bugs me. I like to know just about everything about my partner / girlfriend.

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