Is it normal to hate myself for not being able to talk to people.

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I am a (does it really matter) year old boy. Lets start here, i am extremily inteligent. I have an IQ. Of 146 so alot of people dont want anything to do with me. I am completely introverted, i have social anxiety disorder, aspergerd syndrome is in question, and i have OCPD. Im not to attractive but thats not the point. I hate my life for this, i only have around 5 friends that for the most part treat me like rubbish. All in all i hate myself for not being able to talk to people. Any ways im not depressed ( i think) but yeah i would appreciate input thanks.

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  • DarkHusky
    12 years ago

    IQ doesn't say anything about intelligence at all. But that's not the point.
    Don't hate yourself that's just stupid; be happy with who you are!

    Well I'm same as you but I don't have a problem with that because I hate people which seems pretty common for intelligent people^^

    My advice: Enjoy your life, don't care about others!

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  • ucipher8
    8 years ago

    Unless if im with people that i am in close quarters in, of whom have observed me as i have them for a consistent amount of time - im only comfortable around people that i know are comfortable with me around.

    Thats all the socializing i will allow myself to have and ill admit, i wish i had friends or a romantic relationship with someone exclusive - but i just cant bear to weigh anyone down with my pessimistic bullshit.

    So i keeps as much of my personality to myself as i can - the kind of work im involved in (or be hired in rather) only allows me to be in close quarters with other people.

    Life isnt terrible for me however, and im a pessimist. I could be homeless, i could have an actual disability that inhibits my ability to actually earn a living no matter how meager it is. We should both be glad we (at the very least) the internet.

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  • kinda
    11 years ago

    you have to come out of this as soon as you can maybe today or tomorrow don't be late if this problem doesn't decreases it will Increases don't think doing nothing will make stay as the same bad that you feel now.. doing nothing is worse than making mistakes so Do something and don't say that it is a fact that you are introvert look at your self you don't even like your own friends you are like living in hell so don't be stupid make a change...
    it's very normal to hate ur self if you live alone ..

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  • methodical
    12 years ago

    your age does matter sweetie if u are a teen or even early twenties i would say you will out grow it for the most part you just have to be comfortable with who you are and start getting some smart friends so you dont intimidate them . its all about finding where you fit in and this may happen soon or it may take a while.. until then work on your self confidence dont let anyone bully you . those guys that treat u like crap are not your friends they are people u choose to hang with. U bleed red and breathe oxygen just like they do so dont take them treating you badly.. hey practice saying no sometimes if feels great and if they stick around after u stand up to them then maybe u guys can be friends after all.
    my IQ is nowhere near yours but i have also been there so its not a negative hun its a positive trust me on that one. look forward to the day when you will be the one all those people come to for jobs and favors cause YOU Will be a success . dont let them stand in your way because in the end you can be the one on top with all the power.. true word hun..

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  • Crudhouse
    12 years ago

    You should DEFINITELY take up meditation, but make sure you adhere to the guidelines.

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