Is it normal to hate my stepmom

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Okay I honestly don't hate my stepmom. It's just I just get so irritated with her when I'm at my dads. She picks on me doesn't understand me. Or anything. Latley it's been getting worse and I don't know what to do. Cause I'm scared im goin to hurt my dad in the process. When I'm here I feel like I'm never good enough. And she assumes everything about me and doesn't really know anything bout who i am. She also believes that I think the world revolves around me and I don't everyone else comes first. But I guess no one else sees it.

What should I do? The more this goes on the more I want to blow up :(

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  • MissClaire
    12 years ago

    The whole step mom thing is difficult - I had a step mom and felt similar to yourself. I never could spend any alone time with my dad. As I got older, I realized that my dad just loves my step mom and not to confuse that with him loving me any less. Again, as I got older I got some additional information as to why my parents marriage didnt work, and I realized why he earned for someone like my step mom that treated him with more respect.
    Having said that I agree with Dad's comment above, you need to have a conversation with him, but when you do that just remember that you cannot undo things that you dont really mean. Try to explain to your father that you just feel like your in second place right now and that you dont want to hurt your step moms feelings but she makes you feel small. Its very touchy and you dont want to play the you v/s her game and put your dad in a bad position. Anyway, good luck, its not easy :)
    If it makes you feel better, it does get better.

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  • Dad
    12 years ago

    Tell your Dad the truth.
    Then tell your Dad the truth again.

    He'll get it the second time round.
    Hopefully he and you can work something out together that makes everyone happy.

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  • WOWmylife
    12 years ago

    I'm going through the exact same situation I've resolved to live with my mom after living 4 years with my step mom I've has enough. BTW this comment is why I joined this site I just had to respond.

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  • MILFman
    12 years ago

    if she a whore she a whore cunt! BUT if she just your stepmom and you just don't feel comfortable being with her then that's is so human.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    There are many fatal chemicals you can get your hands on that are untraceable in an autopsy.

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    • WOWmylife
      12 years ago

      who the fuck are you don't go around saying that

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  • rosemayy
    12 years ago

    Tell yr dad you hate her or you can tell yr mum you hate yr stepmum if you dont want to hurt/upset yr dad.

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