Is it normal to hate my real dad

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My parents got divorced ages ago and I've been fine with that but ever since my dad got a girlfriend I tried to be nice, but the truth is she hates me and I hate her
Well over the years I put up with her because my dad loves her so for many years I came every two weekends and put up with evil glares and all round bitchy comments but I loved my dad so much I kept putting up with it until she said we should try and get along and I was up for it but soon she was a bitch again.

Also as time gone on they had a child, and i hoped she would calm down but in truth she never calmed down, now my dad ignores her an if anything happens like if she catches a col it's my fault and I hate it!!!

Now after many years so it I'm officially fed up and now Want nothing to do with his side of the family and also want to change my surname to my step fathers

Should I proceed or should I see how this situation plays out?

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    i dont understand where you say he ignores her now. doesnt that take the pressure of you a bit cant you meet your dad somewhere outside the house? also get him alone and talk to him, he might not tell you something you want to hear but he will remember your words at home. good luck

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  • jensapa
    13 years ago

    Just put some space between yourself and them, u may feel different as time goes on. An who's to say they will stay together?

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  • Sotchi
    13 years ago

    Wow that's a tough situation. Have you talked to your dad about it? Maybe you should let him know how your feeling- especially if you feel like you just don't want anything to do with his fam anymore. He deserves to know why. I would talk to him and then go from there.

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