Is it normal to hate my own curvy body?

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Hi All,to start I am eastern european so here 80% of women are very thin,all my friends were thinner at school and made fum of me,I had problems with bullying at my body ever since primary school,being prematurely developed in my breast and hips area as a girl.I have greek ancestors and have wider hips.2 guys at school ruined my life as they made nasty jokes of me and put me down.Ever since I got trauma about my body and affected my selfconfidance.The husband of my best friend was commenting the other day to his friends in front of everyone in the birthday party about my big breast which made me feel horrible.Here women like Beyonce and Kim Kardashian are thought to be fat and unattractive.I look like their body shape,I want to die sometimes.Why do I hate my bidy so much?Is it normal?

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Don't hate your body because of what other people think.

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    • Easterneuropean86
      11 years ago

      yea is not like I am fat or anything ,I do work out and my muscle is more then my fat just my bone structure is wider for this demographics.I am being also modest I don't wear any tide clothes or anything like that so I am basically sending the signal that is not your business what my body is like but they seem to go on board with words like fat.

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  • dom180
    11 years ago

    You obviously have really bad self-esteem issues, which is a shame. The people who bully you for how you look might just be jealous of you (either because of how you look or something else) and are trying to put you down because they are insecure about how they look too.

    In most cultures there are quite a lot of people who find curviness attractive, and I'd be very surprised if you can't find any of those people in your culture if you search enough even if those people happen to be in the minority.

    You're probably very pretty. Don't hate your body.

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  • DannyKanes
    11 years ago

    They're just jealous that you're hot and they're not

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  • keef
    11 years ago

    It's all jealousy. The girls around you wish they could have the body of a woman, and all the guys wish they could have a woman. See, you have the body of a woman, and they all look like little girls or have little girl shaped ladies!

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  • Easterneuropean86
    11 years ago

    I told my friend's husband to go screw himself somewhere.The worse part is my friend laughed with him and then she told him hey let's not make fun at the girl! It was so bad,it doesn't matter what a person looks like but the personality behind the phisics!

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  • KacyWatson
    3 years ago

    What's normal to hate your own curvy body. by the way some men actually prefer bigger women. :) Cuddly..

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  • Purple_Monkey
    8 years ago

    I have a very small, almost flat boobs and some guys make fun of me. One man asked me: "Why are you so skinny? Do you have worms?" I am not even underweight(my BMI is around 18).
    It is impossible to be liked for everyone. Some men like skinny women, but others prefer more curvy body type. Stay the way you are and don't pay attention on ignorant people making rude comments.

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  • Beanhouse55
    9 years ago

    Yes. You are really fat

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  • kryscarmellose
    11 years ago

    Apparently everyone where you live is really stupid.

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  • DonnieLighto
    11 years ago

    Move to the US. You'll be thinner than 80% of the women.

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    • robbieforgotpw
      11 years ago

      You think American women are blimps?

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  • Easterneuropean86
    11 years ago

    Thanx very much guyz ,I appreciate your answers,yea here narrow minded is such a problem!I will ignore them because success is the real thing to focus on,seems it gives much more long term self esteem then atractiviness,even my own parents bullied me lol but at least I know why they did that,they thought they would encourage me to lose weight,well I lost a lot but I can't change my bone structure! lol

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  • annm2361
    11 years ago

    It's normal for people to judge what's different, it's called being narrow minded when they put u down. So u Eva let them beat u with it or ignor them and be the happy person u are inside.

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  • NiceKitty
    11 years ago

    The world is so hateful most people would rather die than be themselves.

    Don't listen to the hate.
    Love yourself and your body.

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