Is it normal to hate my mother?

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I hate my mother. As far as I can remember, we have fought. We both curse at each other, and hit each other. I believe I curse at her and hit her because I was raised that way (My father doesn't live with us), but she says it's just because I'm an asshole. She always says she is the parent and she can hit me and curse at me all she wants. I don't care who it is, I'll curse at the person and hit them back. She says I ruin our family everyday, and my sister (who is also a little bitch) agrees with her no matter what. I am so upset all the time, and the last thing I need is to come home to a mother I can't stand. Please help. Am I wrong? Is it normal to hate my mother??

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  • mlbryan44
    8 years ago

    Have you ever fucked her yet? She is one hell of a good fuck.

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  • ucipher8
    11 years ago

    Its always normal to hate your parents. My parents for example tried to use neglect, to teach me love. Luckily, for them it worked.

    If you have to leave, make arrangements. Save money, etc. Running away is another option, but i pray you have people you can trust

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  • Mando
    11 years ago

    Dad is quite correct - your family is part of the larger problem of a society's misguided belief in bullying and violent parenting. And your mom has taken that to abusive levels. Of course you hate her and coming home. Who wouldn't? Call CPS or at least get to a youth counselling agency to start putting your life in a different direction.

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    You're probably hormonal and she's probably exhausted with all the responsibility! Just believe that she doesn't know any child rearing skills and try not to hate her for her ignorance.

    If possible get out of there.
    You will be happier and develop a respect for her efforts.

    Stay away from her as much as possible.

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  • Oli
    12 years ago

    You should probably get away from that toxic environment. If you're a minor, call your Child Services, if you're an adult, ask if you can live with a friend, or try to move at as fast as possible.

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  • Dad
    12 years ago

    Corporal punishment (hitting spanking) is illegal in 30 countries! (except good ol christian US)

    After extensive research worldwide it was found that hitting a child (or screaming abuse at them) ONLY causes that child to either be scared or angry at the parent.

    Although the child may stop the so called 'bad' behavior, they have not learned anything at all, and therefore will not know right from wrong themselves, thus doing the same ignorant 'teachings' to their kids one day.

    Break the circle.
    Inform your mom that she needs to grow up. And at the same time stop hitting and cursing at her. Eventually you will be in charge of your life.

    I really hope that helps you.

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