Is it normal to hate my mother?
I am 15. My mother always makes me angry. She always says stuff that ruins my self esteem, then later on yells at me saying i have no respect for my self. She will downgrade me, and if i ask her why shes talking rudely to me she screams. Then later she will act like nothing has happened. She makes me so mad, i just want to punch walls and break things, but i cant. I used to go to a counselor, but she left and i wasnt getting a new one. I always get crap about my cat. She yells at me about him. I cant make him a vet appointment because im underage. I cant even buy myself a phone without her or my stepdad breaking it. I really hate my mom. To everybody else she is great and amazing. I tell people about how she acts and they just say that im a teenage and mothers do that. Is it ok for me to have a real burning hate for her?