Is it normal to hate my mother

I am 18 and I hat my mother. It is a horrible thing to say and I hate the feeling. I get a burning feeling and my stomach twists when ever I am around her. In the car, in a store, in our house, or even at a family members apartment. Just the sound of her voice makes me want to break something. She repeats her self. She is selfish. When I was little she wouldn't make food unless she was hungry. She makes my eye twitch and my teeth grind. I hate he so much. She is sickening. My moth had two mental breakdowns and she is bipolar disorder with psychotic attachments. She is paranoid and always asking me if my father is stalking her. They live in the same house so how is he stalking her.

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Based on 23 votes (12 yes)
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  • (s)aint

    It's normal. Mentally ill people can be a freaking nightmare to be around -_-
    I would never want to live with one.

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    • gt71698

      Thank you. I would rather her have dementia and repeat herself rather than her now repeating herself because she can

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      • (s)aint

        Move away asap and/or try and get her some help?

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  • Peanuts

    Have some appreciation for everything she did raising you. Being a parent isn't easy

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  • gloryholeflasher

    I used to hate my Mother in my late teens and twenties. Several of my siblings did also. Then one day I had a life changing moment. I took a moment to ask myself "why?" Although she was difficult to get along with sometimes, and she and my Dad had divorced, still, she wasn't a bad person. As I tried to remember the reason why I hated her I kept coming up with memories of good things she had done to demonstrate that she had always loved me. The bad memories of her weren't due to her being a bad person.
    They were due to her being human and making mistakes, as we all do. I had to admit to myself something that's not easy to do - I had a bad attitude, and needed to get over it. I'm happy to say that our relationship got continually better from then on. At the end of her life when she was unconscious on her death bed I was able to be there holding her hand, reading her favorite passages from the Bible and praying with her, letting her know I cared. (I visited her regularly before she went unconscious, too, BTW).
    Some of my siblings never got over their hate for our Mom and they have to live with themselves. Although Mom was unresponsive last time I saw her I'm sure she knew I was there for her because hearing is the last thing to go, and a few minutes after I left her she went to sleep.

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  • ReginaFalange

    It's normal to be tired of her, but you shouldn't hate her, it's not like she does it on purpose, she's sick.

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  • ShadoClone

    It's normal. You're just sick of being near her for 18 years.

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  • chained_rage

    After all was said and done, that crazy lady still raised you.. and here you are, passive aggressively repaying her in hate.

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  • thegypsysailor

    You and a whole hell of a lot of others on here. Why don't y'all go start your own website and give us a break?
    Just one thing, do you think she repeats herself so much because you don't listen to her?

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    • gt71698

      How would I know if she repeats herself if I don't listen? Duh.

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      • thegypsysailor

        My mistake; don't respond, don't act, don't acknowledge, duh.

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