Is it normal to hate my mom?

I hate my mom. She has every personality trait I hate. And not only that, she mistreats my sisters and I. Sometimes I wish she would just go away and never comeback. She has ALWAYS blamed me for everything that goes wrong and is never happy with me. She has hit me before and she has said so many mean things. And she's rude to everyone, she acts as if she is perfect and better than everyone else. She always tells me I should disappear because with me gone her life would be easier that I am her only problem. She always calls me fat, ugly, stupid, worthless, etc. I am just so fed up with her!

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  • thegypsysailor

    You and about 500 other children on this site. Try a search, maybe you all can get together and start a hate my mommy club.
    You haven't a clue what a really bad mom is like, I can assure you. Try having a clinically insane mother, not on medication, in a time when child abuse did not exist, legally.

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  • bitchbeanerheart20

    I had dealt with this with my father also.. he treated me horrible. Always told me when i was growing up that he is not my father he didnt have to like me but he does love me. He has weird way of showing. He said so many hurtful things to me. It messed my head up for very long time. Emotion problems. Parents do get stress out raising a kid.. But a parent shouldn't ever put their child thru emotionally abuse like this. I dealt with it. i am 24 years old.. and to this day it still affects me esp in my relationship. Cause i take lot of things people say to me too personally & feelings hurt easily when they wasnt trying to. My father always told me if he ever dies he don't want me @ his funeral. its been 3 years since i last seen him. yes i misses him. yes i love him but its not worth lot of heartache & headache from someone who constantly put you down..

    Need a friend to talk to! You are welcome to message me! Good luck & hang in there. Do what you gotta do to make yourself happy. Do what you want to do in life. Dont let your mother stop you doing things u want to do in life. Dont let it affect you emotionally..cause it mess me up real good. Not worth it!

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  • Faceless

    I remember being 12.

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  • zsdworknman

    Yeah my mom is a psycho too whooped me with wooden broom sticks punched me in the face a few times real good split lip once and she is a huge bigot but I really feel bad for my dad you can tell he isn't happy but he just goes with it I don't know why. I remember once he asked for a divorce and she shot him in the ass with a .22 when he tried to leave . You aren't alone.

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  • boombambop

    Fûck you.

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  • torythesassyunicorn

    Hey I feel that way too, and it's completely normal (I'm 18) not trying to sound like a teenage drama queen but that's just the truth. I hate my parents, I don't know if hate is the right word but I'm a 100% sure I don't love them. It doesn't make me a bitch I just have come to realize my self-worth. Do what makes you happy as long as you don't hurt anyone else in the process. I'm a very nice person and everyone tells me I'm very selfless but my parents think I'm selfish af. It just really sucks also my mom calls me names actually so does my dad and they physically abuse me too. Just a few days ago my mom slapped me so hard that my lip started to bleed and I still have bruises over my arms. My advice is just don't give a fuck about what they say, she's just trying to hurt you and bring you down. Realize your self-worth and keep in mind that one day you're going to leave and be very happy, God knows that's how I get through the day everyday, one day at a time. If you need someone to talk to you can let me know I'd be happy to help :) hang in there :D

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  • theseeker

    No, your mom is the reason you exist. I don't think "hate" is the right word. You might not like her, but how about you try to figure out how to stand on your own 2 feet and support yourself? If this is the case, it's time to spread your wings and fly. Get the hell outta there! You can't be around somebody that's constantly going to bring you down.

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Oh ok then fuck off and make it on your own.

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