Is it normal to hate my in-laws?

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Not just HATE, but extremely hate? Not dislike..I mean, hate.

They're the exact opposite of my family and they have no manners. They're also very disrespectful to me and others.. I just hate it. I can't stop thinking about it and I'm letting it get inside my head. I feel like the thought of how evil they are will haunt me forever. I feel so depressed about them, always. I love my husband, but is it normal to not want anything to do with his insane effed up family?

Yes, very normal. 70
It's somewhat normal. 23
Not normal. You should try to get along. 6
Don't worry, be happy.. 9
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  • Mommie0f2
    13 years ago

    OMG!! I just posted a story about the SAME SITUATION!!! There for i beleive its 100% normal!!! Sometimes when you are with someone or have kids with someone and you decide "Hey I wanna be with this person for the rest of my life" you forget all about the "PACKAGE" that comes with them. And sometimes that package is enough to ruin everything. Hate them all you want, if you hate them there HAS TO BE A REASON!! <<so hate on =)>>

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    • LoverOfWeinerDogs
      13 years ago

      Truth!

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  • red_star
    13 years ago

    mine ask us for money... so rude :/

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  • norcalbuddha
    13 years ago

    totally normal...try hard to feel sorry for them because they are pathetic...this took time doing, but it totally helps.

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  • That_Guy_From_The_Party
    13 years ago

    Kill them with fire.

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  • karmasAbich
    12 years ago

    Normal in laws suck ass.

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  • wigsplitz
    13 years ago

    Same situation here!! Mine are just unbelievably rude in so many ways and MIL is the most extreme liar and thief on the planet. What's worse is they act like thier shit doesn't stink. It ended up in me letting them have it, I just laid it all out one day when I got fed up. It didn't solve anything. I still hate them but I try to not let it eat at me. I guess I realized that they're not gonna change. If they're this rude and stuff, that they've likely been this way all their lives and I'm not the only person who knows the realness. It would be so satisfying to get an apology or even just an acknowledgement for some of the stuff they've done, but I realized that this too will never happen. So....although I didn't let it go and I still can't stand them, for my own sanity I have just kinda accepted it and I do whatever I can to avoid them at all costs.

    You can't change them but you can change how you deal with them, don't let some rude scumbag ruin your day!! Take pleasure in knowing that everyone else they know probably thinks they're assholes and hates them too!!

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  • puppyface
    13 years ago

    Just don't tell your husband. He will never let you live it down. My boyfriend doesn't.

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