Is it normal to hate my grandma so much?!?!?

Cookie Monster, you asked for other people's opinions on a website. What did you expect? Your grandmother may indeed be annoying (and maybe only to you) but your passionate hate seems like overkill. When you are a grown-up I believe you will look back on this time and wish you had had more patience and respect. That comes with maturity. I imagine you're putting out just as much negative energy as she is and you are both feeding off of each other. In other words, you think she is disrespectful of you, and she thinks you are disrespectful of her. Could you have a talk with her? Say, "Things haven't been so easy for us; could we start over?" And then make a good effort to do just that. Stop being so sensitive to things she can't control. And if she insults you, let her know your feelings are hurt. But I really think if you are more caring and understanding towards her she might soften up. I'm sure it's not easy to be elderly with your only choice being to move in with your child, especially if your granddaughter is unwelcoming. And you may have no idea if there is stress between your parents and grandmother, and you are exacerbating it. Who knows.... Just brainstorming. Hope you and your grandmother are able to work these things out. Believe it or not, a relationship with her could be very meaningful if you let it.

You're pissed off with your Grandmother because, let me get this right, because of the way she TALKS?! I would give the entire world to see my Granddad again, and I genuinely get upset when I see a child with their grandparent because I'll never have it again.
Re-read what you have said and look at how sad you look

Have you considered talking to a therapist about this?
Seems to me that you have some issues and a therapist could help you to see things from a better perspective.

You're pathetic

Uh,I don't see the Problem? She's just old doesn't mean You shouldn't Respect her...I Hate My Grandmother but I Have Reasons and it has nothing to do with how she talks?

Well, I'm not going to cuss at you, but you haven't given me even a halfway-decent reason to be angry at your grandmother, much less hate her. Frankly I think you're being mean-spirited and cruel, and you need to grow up and act your age. I've known 12-year-olds who behaved better than that. In fact I DID behave better than that when I was 12, and I have a LOT of issues.

There is no way to be nice about this so here goes: You are a total fucking douche bag!!! That is why I hate most of the teenagers out there, no respect for elders, ignorance and selfishness...

You're pathetic grow up

You are hormonal and in a generation that lacks total respect and obedience to an older generation. My grandma was disabled but when she said 'jump' we all said 'how high?' Otherwise our parents would've killed us stone dead!

I do agree with some of the above. Her mom died and she is holding back her grief. She may be in your home coz your parents need her money. She may be dying from cancer and no-one is telling you .... loads of possibilities that are all adult problems they may not be sharing with you, in case it upsets you and wrecks your school grades.

It is understandable that you have been used to your own space up until now, and doing things your own way. However, no matter how hard it is, it sounds like you're going to have to lump it until you can move out!

Try to stay calm, nod and smile!
Good luck!

are you sure who you have at home is your grandma and not a wolf? (Little red riding hood) anyway, just be civil and give respect. Next step is to ignore her.

I am also irritated by them. Old people can be so annoying. Why can't they be modern people? Why do they always demand respect?

Yes oh my god my grandma doesn't seem to mean it but she drives me crazy. Its all about her! Its all about her backpains! Its all about work! Its all about cleaning! No time for family! Move brat!

Your just a whiny little cry baby she says after I ask my mom why shes leaving for the night.

UGH she drives me SO crazy. I hate the way she's always talking about my dad (who is divorced) like he's some pour hobo. "Oh! I'll give my grandaughter some money. I dont think Her dad will be able to afford it." "Oh I doubt her dad will take her to the festival, he doesn't have much"

I should keep my mouth shut around her but I cant. Im always thinking after she says something "Stop being a smartass! Just because your too stupid to realize that our dog's dead doesn't give you a reason to cry." In my head: "SHUT UP! It does give me a reason to cry.

Whats wrong with you?! OH! I know! EVERYTHING. It might just be horomones or something but still. I hate it. I used to love her so much until now she started getting so annoying and I have to live with her.

My gram talks the same way, like she says "warter" for "water," and "yins" for "you all." She's old and old-fashioned, and so is your gram. It's sad that you're so annoyed at such little things.

you're so mean.

I've heard that usually when people get insulted by something it's because they know it's actually true.

Anyways, no offense but you don't sound very nice.

Her mother died a while ago, so give her a fucking break. You DO realize your great grandmother, is her mother, right?

God.

STOP FUCKING INSULTING ME :,,,,,((( she makes fun of me alot when my PARENTS ARN'T AROUND I JUST DESCRIBED WHAT HAPPENED TO ME IN LIKE THISES PAST FIVE MINUTES!!!! SO STOPP!!!!