Is it normal to hate my brother this much?

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I'm not going to give the EXAMPLES of his stupidity in fear of boring everyone, so I'll just cut to the chase.

I HATE my brother. He is HALF my age but literally the WORST born-brother ever. My parents fucked him up worse than me, but he didn't even need THEIR help - he could have done it himself.

I want to kill him. I think about it more often than I probably should. Even when we get along it's only so there will be peace in the house, I hate the faggot (not in the homosexual way, just the stupid-as-fucking-fuck way) and think about stabbing him while he's awake and (attempting) at shredding his skin with my teeth. I want to claw at him, I want to show him his own intestines.

And honestly, I get scared at gore. I like blood, but can't stand those types of things. He is the only person I have ever thought about killing often, and detailed.

He's a stupid ignorant, baby brat. I won't do it now but someday, maybe when I'm perhaps a little older...whether by me or an accomplice or if I decide to call a hit on him, I want to watch him suffer.

I don't want to ruin my future or be thrown in jail, and actually I'm being a hypocrite here because I strongly believe nobody has the right to end someone else's life.

Except in my brother's case.

What can I do until I'm old enough to move out? He's a brat that leaves the house on his own and if I prayed I'd pray he get hit by a car or kidnapped.

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    11 years ago

    If he is half your age then, I'm sorry to say, you haven't given him enough time to develop character, common sense, or anything of the like. You can't be more than 16 or 17 and half of that is less than 10. I am sorry to say that kids are just fucking stupid and sometimes, no matter how they are raised, they don't develop a shit bit of sense until they are around your age or older.

    Your experience as being an older sibling to some dumb ass kid is normal and don't set your opinion too harshly until he is at least 16 and even THEN he might still not be fully matured. Parents tend to go a little easier on the youngest kid. Sorry to say, but if you are the oldest, you were the tester. Parents tend to re-arrange their parenting styles either due to tiredness, apathy, learning from error so on and so forth... He is just a kid, relax dude.

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  • kelili
    11 years ago

    Find a sport to do - boxing or some martial art. You're wasting all your energy hating someone who will always be your family. And you're doing harm to yourself. Just focus your attention away from your brother

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    The Emperor would be proud of you.

    Rarely is the right choice the easy one. And it's easy to be angry. So don't be.

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  • Sig_45
    11 years ago

    n to the op man stfu, u obviously too young and dumb to kno the value of a fukin lil brother man hope he read this in a couple years n beat ur ass, wut kind of pussy talk bout stabbing their little brother, is it because they like him better? sounds to me like ur the bratty bitch

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  • suky
    10 years ago

    It's not normal and it's very sad. if you can't love your brother for what he is - a little boy - you have a big piece missing from your humanity. He'll grow up and probably be a good person. It's your hatred that would worry me. I have never heard of this in a Chinese family, like mine.

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  • drugsrbadmkay
    11 years ago

    Tie him down and tickle him, not in a fun way, in a sadistic way until he passes out and/or wets his pants. Repeat as needed until he learns not to mouth off to you.

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  • SkiMiski
    11 years ago

    obviously it's not normal. try to see things from someone else view for a change. if you hate someone that bad, you're hurting yourself. hate is poison, as is anger. it eats at you from the inside out. only love will heal you, make u happy, and make you a better person. let go of the hate. how can you hate someone less intelligent than u? do u see teachers hatting their pupils? they teach their pupils to make them smarter. do u see parents hating their children. they raise them and teach them to be smarter. do u see big brothers hate their little brothers? they teach them to be smarter. as u should. let go.

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  • coffeebreath
    11 years ago

    Just keep on enduring as best as you can. I can think of many examples of kids who were little shits, but grew up to be more tolerable, and hopefully the same will happen in your situation.

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  • Rorschach2099
    11 years ago

    Yeah, kids at that age are sociopathic monsters. He'll probably grow out of it. Just avoid him the best you can

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  • theabider
    11 years ago

    How about just hitting the "ignore" button now and then?

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  • IrishPotato
    11 years ago

    I have a similiar issue with my brother, although he's 28 and I'm 18.

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  • NotStrangeBird
    11 years ago

    You hate him because you see the qualities you don't like about yourself.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    what is behind the intensity of your feelings?

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