Is it normal to hate my boyfriend?

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Okay, so me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 and a half years...I met him when I was 14 and he was 18. We live together also, have been almost our whole relationship, but Im starting to resent him. I know I love him but not really sure if im in love, first of all, he is a mean drunk, and I mean punching walls for no reason mean...and has no job hasnt since we have been together, I buy everything...Im just scared to leave him because im comfortable...what I want to know is should I leave him or stick it out?

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    Get out of there NOW!

    Don't even dream of wasting one more day of your precious life. You'll look back and regret you didn't do it sooner. You are at your best age and deserve a chance to meet someone decent and worthy of you.

    Run for your life girl - just post the keys back through the letterbox!

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    • blades123
      12 years ago

      leave now is the only answer

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  • Sweetz
    12 years ago

    Punching walls?! Leave!

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  • Hhhhhhhh
    10 years ago

    Darling, leave!! Right now!! I know it's scary but please tell people about this and let them help you leave him before he hurts you!!

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  • RoseIsabella
    11 years ago

    RUN!!!

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  • patriot071592
    11 years ago

    If a guy is at least 18 and has no part- or full-time job, not even during the summer, then he's a bum. There are many jobs out there for young men. You shouldn't care if he ends up working for minimum wage (I'm not saying you do, but you get my point), at least it's something and at least he'd be trying to support both of you.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Punching walls! What next... punching youu? Telling youu lies... seriously girl... get out of it while youu still can... it'll be hard because he was youu know at the time being and youu probably do love him and he is probably your fist love but... there is this thing called time... it heels everything :D chin up girl and be brave and walk away before it's too late and you're too scared... get support from your friends and family as well :) and do things to distract youu from running back to him or letting him back into your life, youu deserve better... youu don't wanna be with a bum for the rest of your life do youu? xxx

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    u're a free witch,baby ! leave the bustard

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