Is it normal to hate my body so much? i am a guy.

basically i hate everything about me. i am 6 foot 1 and 164lbs which i think is way too skinny, i wish i was 6 foot 3 and 200lbs. i am also extremely pale which makes me look really ill. i am 18 still a virgin and never had a gf or even had a girl compliment me. i am the only single guy out of all my friends.

it makes me depressed and really shy. what can i do about it?

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  • PrincessLollipop

    Well, you can always go to the gym and work your body out to look like what you want it to look like. Tanning isn't very good for you, but if you're really insecure about your pale skin then maybe you can spray tan once in a while? I personally think pale skin is beautiful. :)

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  • sparlan

    It isn't normal to hate your body, but it's not uncommon either.

    I actually love tall, thin, pale guys. Add dark hair, and that's my 'type'. I'm a guy myself, but I am sure that many girls feel the same.

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    • someonenotkelly

      Yum!! and dont forget, LOONG hair <3

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  • karmasAbich

    Me too that's why I got hammered alone tonight and trolling on here
    I hate myself
    Hahaha boo hoo fag
    Fag as in cigarette
    Haha not

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  • BigButters

    Maybe try focusing on your positive attributes for now . What seem's like negative body issue's could also be perceived from some other's as perfect. True that

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  • Coolkat

    No, dont listen to these idiots telling you to go to the gym. Im also 18 virgin(dont let those stupid femenists shame u about being a virgin) an im 5,8 i weigh only 124 pounds but im perfectly fine with myself. Mabey u can try tanning tho :p

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  • tiffunny5

    Looking good doesn't come Natural for most of us.
    People try to improve their looks by working out, wear nice clothing, change their hair color, shave, tan, waxing, Plastic surgery ect..
    If you dont like what you see on the mirror, change it !
    If these things sound like it would be to much work for you to keep up then.... Learn how to except yourself the way you are and thank God you are not a girl, their list of up-keep is a lot longer then men's!

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  • Your.Mom

    Don't worry so much about it. But, since you can't help but be extremely self concious.. just do what you can to improve your self esteem and your looks (since that's what you want). Go to the gym, eat healthy, get some protein shakes, join a class or a group to start meeting new people that will lead to you meeting new women. Being 6' is such a turn on. Women love that, so even if a man is below average looking.. he will gain points for height regardless. Look up confidence boosting mantras that you can practice saying in the mirror. It helps.

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  • UsernameNotAvailable

    What how do you not have a girlfriend?! Personally I love tall guys who don't have too much muscle and I love pale skin. If anything else about your appearance is bothering you than you should research some ways to fix it or improve your looks. Try to avoid any plastic surgery unless you don't like your nose or something.

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  • Thereisnogod

    Im 5 11" and 140lbs

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  • Pisslan616

    I'm pretty skinny too but to be honest I'm happy with it. As long as yr not unhealthy thin.

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  • Sidekickz

    i hate ur body 2

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  • Yuki-Okami

    I'm the same but 6"2 and almost 20

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