Is it normal to hate my body and think every guy will hate it too?

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I have low self esteem and absolutely no confidence when it comes to my body. I have wobbly bits and I also love older men! Do u think the next older guy that comes my way will dislike my body or not want me if he saw me naked? Don't get me wrong I am not ugly it's just I have wobbly bits. Please I need advice regarding this matter. Thanks x

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  • epona_12
    12 years ago

    If a guy dislikes you for your "wobbly bits," he's not worth your time. Be with a guy that will love ALL of you. Don't worry so much about it. We're all made unique. Stand tall and be happy with who you are. :]

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  • kellstar79
    12 years ago

    Alot of men love bigger girls! The bigger the better. Google it. Not every guy wants a stick thin twig.

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    • blueirish
      12 years ago

      Excellent point kell!

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  • tommyleonard30
    12 years ago

    ooh baby. ill lick and suck your wobbly bits. umm baby i love em wobbly.

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  • rin
    12 years ago

    If it bothers you then change it. :)

    Go work out and eat healthy.

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  • PiggaNlease
    12 years ago

    Guys hate girls who think their fat when they are clearly not. If that's you, you need to be slapped. If you actually are fat (sorry lol) then just be yourself. I'm attracted to anyone female who is friendly and kind. Unless she butt ugly

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    • PumpkinKate
      12 years ago

      Not very eloquent, but still precise and generally true in a lot of cases. No matter WHAT your body looks like, a man while find you far more attractive if you are confident in who you are than if you aren't.

      Following up with similar blunt, straight-forwardness:
      A fat ugly chick who knows she's an awesome person will get a good man long before a beautiful, fit woman who thinks she's garbage does.

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      • shuggy-chan
        12 years ago

        yup, or if tthe girl is totally awesome and has good taste and parkours, that helps alot too

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    • hemper
      12 years ago

      this

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  • Anime7
    12 years ago

    If a guy truly loves you, then I'm sure he'll look past you're body. For that matter I think you're being a little too imaginative about your body. I don't know what it is you're referring to by "wobbly bits" but you seem too focused on that feature. Try focusing on the features that you like most about yourself. Everybody has a flaw but that doesn't mean they won't find love. I don't think you should let your body dictate your love life. Someday you'll meet the right guy and to him your body will be perfect.

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  • Truth_teller
    11 years ago

    Kell thats a disorder when guys want bigger girls. I have heard a case of which a guy kept fattening up his girl till she became really obese and then when she went on a diet, he left her for an even bigger girl(that he fattened up more of course)

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  • Lucyg123
    12 years ago

    Wobly bit what
    Take risk

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  • Princess1989
    12 years ago

    Do u really? Lol how old ru?

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  • emotionalwreck4ever
    12 years ago

    i am pretty too but after i had my kids i have some sterech marks and i dont like my body only comfortable with my babys father

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    Have a look around you at all the women who have men!

    Are they all skinny? No!!

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  • Princess1989
    12 years ago

    To piggaNlease
    I'm not ugly lol u seem so nice :-)

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