Is it normal to hate my best friend?

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ok i have been best friend with a girl (m) for 7 years and i love her to death. but recently she has just been annoying me. she just seems fake to me. like if she likes cat then someones like i hate cats she'll go like yeah they can be annoying. stuff like that. the only time i like her is at after school care or when im at her house or shes at mine. just away from school. its the only time she seems real to me. i dont know why but theres just something if-y about her. i dont want to end are friendship but i dont know how long i can handle hiding my feeling from her. am i normal?

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  • Wildman868788
    14 years ago

    Your normal- but it sounds like you are young. If you are, then you are both growing up and just starting to go seperate ways. It happens. She is looking for a little bit of a new identity, so she is probably unhappy with herself. My advice would be to involve yourself in something new and establish more than just her as a friend because before you know it she will be hanging out with other people. Don't cut off all contact, but when she does try to push away you will have other friends to turn to. Prepare yourself. I have been there.

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  • AmberAustri
    10 years ago

    Yes, it can happen

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  • psycotics
    13 years ago

    It's usually people like that who become stalkers( not you, you friend)

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  • PiAnt
    14 years ago

    If it continues, you might have to stop spending time with her, or confront her with your problem.

    It does seem like she's trying too hard to fit in with other people and maybe not respecting your friendship, which means a lot to you.

    Try telling her you sometimes feel hurt by the things she says with other people because her friendship means so much to you.

    She will stop, or you will know it doesn't mean as much to her.

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  • littleone
    14 years ago

    I'm assuming you're still a child, or a teen... and even if you weren't, growing apart from your friends is unfortunately something that happens in life. You're both growing up and perhaps in different directions.

    There's no need to hate, maybe you just need to spend less time with her and find people you have more things in common with. There doesn't need to be any hard feelings. You might even get back to where you used to be someday.

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