Is it normal to hate his ex girlfriend this much

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Ok so first a little background I am 21 my boyfriend is not only my boyfriend I have been with him since I was 17 almost 5 years and He is my fiancé as well as sons father. Long story short last year we were fighting really bad and decided to take a break (we live together as well). So he went out and got back with a ex girlfriend and because he found somebody so fast I went and got with someone else as well. From the day his ex began dating him she started talking about wanting his baby and getting married at this time his mother told her not to get to attached because he would end up back together with me. Within 2 months of our break we were back together and everything seemed normal until I started noticing him going off to see her (sneaking around) but I'm not a dummy so it was easy to figure out. Then she finds out she is pregnant with suppossedly his child. Her ex boyfriend and 1st baby's father called my fiancé even telling him he thought the baby was his to begin with. Since then he has stopped seeing or talking to her entirely ( my fiancé) so here we are a yet later the baby has been born and his whole family has COMPLETLY forgotten about my son for that baby which they still have no idea is even his, the kid looks nothing like my fiancé and my fiance refuses her baby to the fullest. Now that my fiancé is in jail they try to use her an her kid to break him and I up telling me all the things they think of her an how much they love her son that my fiancé should be with her just everything you could possibly think of. I don't know what to do I already think of this girl everyday AT THE LEAST once or twice. But his family doing this now that he is in jail is just ridiculous! I have never met any people that would pick a baby that they don't even know is really there family and a psycho girlfriend over a baby who really is there family! To top it all off the girl is the scaredest person I know as well as the biggest showboat actress! She has them believing she is the perfect mom when in all reality if you look on her fb she goes out practically every night and drinks as well as dances on stripper poles! Now I'm no saint but I don't go out EVERYNIGHT and I'd be damned if I would be slutting it up with strippers! She's constantly telling his family that she's better for him then me and just jealous as anything! But when I call her out about what he says about me she calls me childish and real women don't fight?! Last I knew real women didn't lie about a baby to try to trap a man to be with them either because he don't want her! Is it normal I am this upset and letting her get to me as well as honestly have laughed at the thought of her having a painful death? And how should I deal with her as well as his family?

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  • Justsomejerk
    11 years ago

    He sounds like a real catch.

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    • XoSkyPegasesXo
      11 years ago

      Haha your name says it all you really are just some jerk huh?!

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  • Skylae
    11 years ago

    Maybe you could talk to his family and have some kind of agreement that if she can prove (by DNA test) that it is his baby they'll keep looking after him when she goes out etc. and that if she refuses then she obviously has something to hide. If not, you might want to consider that they're only paying her baby so much attention because it's new, and once it grows up a bit (and maybe once she's had a chance to show her true colours) they'll go back to doting on your kid. I know it must be really hurtful and frustrating, but there is a risk that by demanding a DNA test you'll alienate his family.

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    • XoSkyPegasesXo
      11 years ago

      Believe me I have told them 1 thousand times to tell her to get a DNA test as well as so has my fiancé! She won't do it! That's what gets me that they have NO PROBLEM at all with that. and believe me I thought they would give up on the baby to that it was just a phase but he was born in December it's now July! smh

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  • myboyfriendsbitch
    11 years ago

    You need to accept the fact that the baby MIGHT be his. And it seems that you may be a little jealous of the attention her child is getting. Maybe his family is just doing what they think is right. They probably don't even care about that ho,, they just don't want to neglect the baby. If you can, get the at home DNA test and send it to the lab. it shouldn't be too hard to get some baby saliva. The incarcerated baby daddy saliva will be a little more complicated. Anyhow, i definately see how frustrating this situation must be for you.

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  • BlueJeansWhiteShirt
    11 years ago

    Why are you mad at her though? It takes two to tango. Why is your boyfriend so innocent?

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    • XoSkyPegasesXo
      11 years ago

      Did I or did I not say I don't want any of the leave him stuff?! Maybe I didn't but, unless you have been in the situation you will never know. Two I don't blame him because we WERE on a break so he ha the right to be with somebody else but this girl don't know when enough is enough. If her baby was with him she should have had him in jan or February not December and the doctor told her the baby was born late not early! She's just crazy and expects me not to be mad that she runs her mouth constantly!

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  • ebonysky
    11 years ago

    Screw the family! Screw her. Pay attention to your child and submit paperwork for child support.

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    • XoSkyPegasesXo
      11 years ago

      Never that, I'd never leave him are people not reading this post correctly this is about her not him

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    11 years ago

    Two words: paternity test.

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    • XoSkyPegasesXo
      11 years ago

      Yes I agree with you on the paternity test! But she wont get one done because she knows when the baby turns out not his she won't have his family to watch him while she goes to the bar and sluts around with guys :/ my fiancé and I have told her numerous times, she never does it.

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