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I hate wedding receptions. I hate family parties where everyone is in love and hugging each other . Makes me want to leave immediately. I don't know, I just get angry and want to leave.
Mindless happiness can lead to brain bleed. Find a quiet corner for a good chess game with your iPod.
I think there's more to your feelings of so called "hate" than you're letting on, my friend. You might have some underlying issues that you're not consciously aware of as well.
In all honesty, there is a very fine line between just enough and too much and many people do cross it. It's difficult to broach the subject in a diplomatic way. I can't stand being around a family that devolves into an ass kissing contest and fishes for compliments about how "wonderful" they are.
I'm glad to know that I am somewhat normal. My family is full of nice people. But since I am shy and a little paranoid about life in general, I feel like none of the mirth making is done for my benefit, but just for everyone else. So I just want to get the hell out of there.
I know I need to "mingle and participate in the party" but it is just too hard.
I think large social gatherings can be awkward for a lot of people. I usually feel anxious for the first while but I find myself relaxing as the hours pass and I've had a few good conversations with people I like. It helps loosen things up if there's alcohol of some sort involved too.
I hate it because I feel like everyone is being fake or, as Holden would say, "phony"
hahahaha YES but it's normally people that piss me off so i don't really bother to go