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I kind of feel awkward for asking this but, I'm a girl and
I get annoyed as soon as a girl talks to me.
I also dislike '' romantic '' situations and
I only have male best friends.
I don't know why but... I never met a female that
I liked. :L
Is this normal? :L
At some point in my life i thought i hated girls too and i started hanging out almost exclusively with boys for 2 years. Then i realized they were just as bitchy and that I hated everyone equally.
Maybe you're meeting all the wrong girls? This is an especially easy thing to do if you are a teenager.
Do you get to know women before you decide you dislike them?
Or is it something on the surface that irritates you and makes you not want to know them in the first place?
Maybe you should figure out what it is. "women" is a pretty big category, ya know.
I'm sure she probably tries.
In many cases (and yes, this includes my own experience), the girl becomes unlikable once you get to know her. It's not always that obvious. I've had friends I've liked and even BFFs that have suddenly changed, back stabbed, or turned on me in one way or another. It's happened so much now that I am very wary of whom I allow to get close.
Some women seem nice and normal on the surface, but can be selfish, inconsiderate, psychotic c***s who take advantage of other *truly* nice women.
Cuppycake is pretty right about my thoughts. I used to like to hang out with girls but they all became very different then before. And I know, everybody changes... But I never met any guys with this problem. .3.
I guess I'm just scared all girls will turn out to be different then before. <u>
- and sorry for bad english since I'm dutch. ^^'' -
or you could be a slut. a lot of attractive girls who have only guy friends just like being around the guys. laughs.
but seriously yeah most girls today are a pain in the but women are more drama filled. they are more stuck up and more full of themselves, guys can be that way too but i think women do in a way that is just more infuriating.
I've always preferred the company of women to the strutting "one ups man ship" or "testosterone party" of guys. I've never understood the male need to prove one's masculinity to other men and when I'm with women, it's kinda a fait accompli!
Perhaps it's something similar for you with women.
For all of high school and middle school I didn't really like girls or boys in general. I mean I'm sure there were lots of nice girls and guys but most of the ones I was surrounded by I didn't like at all. The girls were and still are (now instead of school it's work where I work mostly with girls and man are girl two faced and catty there) bitchy, two faced and very catty.
Where as the guys where (especially in middle school) very immature and annoying. I was bullied pretty bad in Middle school and though girls may have talked behind my backs and me being to naive. The boys where the ones really bullying me, mooing at me, whale, cow, stupid, fugly one guy even threw an ice chunk at my head. Now I have this weird fear of all guys because of it and I get really nervous and extremely quiet around any and every guy.
God when I right it out like that it makes me seem so pathetic...
Well a some of the female groups of "friends" I have been around seem pretty toxic and if I was a girl I doubt I would be into that sort of drama either.
So if that kind of group dynamic isn't for you then I can understand.
The thing is though that not every female is a part of that and so you should deal with it on a case by case basis rather then just building a wall but I wouldn't worry about it too much either. If you have friends and they happen to be guys there isn't much to concern yourself with but be open to the idea of making female friends, I'm sure there are people out there you would like.
yes, I was a teenager and one point and I hated teenagers. Simply being a girl does not mean you act like most women, and being a teenager does not mean you act like most teenagers.
Girls are bitchy, judgemental and sly, guys are honest and cool with however you want to be.
yes it is i never thought of marriage at all to be honest i really hate the type of girl that will change just for a guy and yes some girls are hell to deal with yes i am a women so i hate my own kind sometimes oh wait i have everyone regardless of gender.
It's normal if you're an American gal as I find many have quite ingrained misogyny while having this super special snowflake mindset of 'gals are such bitches/whores/sluts/catty/judgmental except for me that's why I only hang out with guys'.
Yes it's normal. I am a woman and I generally do not like other women. They are just so catty and judgmental.
have you ever considered that maybe, you just don't like yourself that much?
It seems like a lot of girls feel this way. Its probably an evolutionary thing..someone has to hold the door open.
This is so normal it is almost painful. But I think that you should try to get a few female friends at least, because even if this sounds narrow-minded, there are things that only people of the same gender can understand.
For me, it's most cishet NT females. Especially the straight-laced ones.
I was friends with one for over 10 years (Mentioned elsewhere on this site) and - in my mind - she's singlehandedly all but turned me into a misogynist.
There are females I get on with (Most cis, not all het and pretty much none of them being NT), but those are few and far between
When I was younger, like 15, I HATED other girls with a passion, I really don't know why either, but now a days, I'm more accepting of girls, and I even have a crush on a girl, she's not girly, or anything, and has a strange sense of humor that I love.
Personally, I think you shouldn't hate all girls, because you haven't met every girl in world, have you?
U just need some bling and some goats. and a Hot Spanish guy. aaaaaaaaaaaaaah! Screw them bitches.