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I hear a lot about girls wanting to date older men, because they are more mature, and i think thats a load off bull. Do they really think an older guy is going to want to date a younger girl because she is more mature than the other girls her age or his? no its about the nice young hot sex he's going to get.
You know what "mature" means? It means they want establishment. It's not about atitude, it's about stability... or dare I say: MONEY. Older guys have more Money because they are already established in their careers. In a sense, a decent majority of women are prostitutes for a "special" guy.
It depends on just how big the age gap is. Five years is one thing; it's negligible, really. But personally, I'm disturbed by women who go for MUCH older men. It's just creepy.
I'm not too bothered by it because it sort of balances out the dating world. Frankly, there are a lot of men who prefer to date younger women as opposed to someone their own age. If women want to date someone older it's not my business and neither is it yours. However, the only problem I have with women who date older men is that they assume that other men their age are immature when there are actually nice guys who are mature at 20. But like I said, it's none of our business.
Guys want a more younger woman, younger women give themselves to older men. If you want to blame someone for this happening, blame the girls for seeking our such men.
And to be honest, statisticly the most successful marriages are when the male is five years older.
Ah it's normal to feel that way there's not much we can do though,it's their choices but it does annoy me when I see 18 year old girls sleeping with 50-60 year old men. >_> I am mature for my age, even though im mature I don't want to go for older because older doesn't mean mature. I personally don't see what these young women see in father/grandfather aged men. Though it's not my problem and will always be something people do in society and we just have to learn to ignore it.
I feel the same way I m talking bout the 15 year old girls who have 23 year old bfs in some cases I've seen. They say age is just a number so I suppose jail is just a room right? Its obvious they want they sex and there to stupid to see it
i guess couse it's all my female friends talk about when they talk about getting bf or who there going on a date with. it gets anoying. but also my gf used to only date older guys couse they were "more mature" lets just say one was a cheater and the other a phsycopath. and during arguments sometimes she says this is why people date older guys. and if theres a problem with asking for sex she'll say "god older guys dont push sex this much" (its like once a day its not bad for a 19 year old i think)
Yes it is normal to feel this way, mainly cos you're obviously not getting any.
2 things to think about:
1) How mature do you think your post is (hint: it's not. Might explain your bad luck with the girls).
2) One day you're going to be that older guy. Get over it.
I'm 31 and my girlfriend is 20. Anybody who thinks that she is a slut or golddigger couldn't be more wrong. I was made redundant, have a juvenile, purile sense of humour and she still tries to pay for me despite my protests. What bracket would you put her in?
I have never had a problem with it, but my mom is 14 years older that her 21 year old boyfriend and they live together.
In my opinion it depends on HOW much older.. ya know ? Think about it some people in your grade back in the day were born a year before/ahead so u might be a year older but still the same age basically 2 year range is tight enough even for a strict hater i'd have to say my grandparents are highschool sweethearts since freshman year and are a year apart always.. <3
I date an older guy. I didnt search him out it just happened. I am 30 he is 44. We met and liked each other it had nothing to do with age (either way) when you like someone age dosent matter. It is not about money!! Well not for me! Every person is different of course their are golddiggers and some older men dont want to date older women but i dont think it can be so black and white, life doesnt work that way
Girls like confidence in a guy and older guys are more confident than guys her age.
And guys just like fresh meat so they are attracted to younger girls. I guess it's normal.
Go with the flow and get with younger girls
I date younger girls, ha ha, jokes on you buddy. And I'm going to enjoy them as long as I can.
I believe in dating younger guys,
so with this being said, I'm on your side,
anyways, i'm 22 and I only date 18+ and up :p IDC
I have mature guys that are like 19 they would love to date me buuut I'm currenlty taken.
but it is noraml, I just don't agree with it, cuase my cousin dates, a 22 yr old she is 19 and all she does is does what he says and takes care of her kids she has no life anymore, its rather sad