Is it normal to hate everything about everyone and existence?

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I have this problem. I am an extremely angry individual. I am angry for basically one reason; people. People and their blind ignorance for what is right. Is it normal that I am a relatively good person, but really horrible things happen to me, while a stupid whore (literally) gets to be a wife and have a gorgeous child and money and happiness. And I get no jobs because no one will hire me, and no money, and ungodly depression, and no friends. Don't bother insulting me, i've already heard it come from my own mouth. I want genuine replies. Do other people feel this way too? Am I the only one enraged by the society of today? Am I SUPPOSED to be a horrible person? Please, tell me.. is this normal.

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    11 years ago

    I don't think blaming people in general for your problems is the right course of action. Not only are people imperfect (so doubtful you will find a 100 percent true, honest to goodness person, most of the time) but the ones that fuck others over will inevitably make a bigger impression on your life than people who treat you with decency. They'll make such an impact that you'll believe that no one has treated you with decency. You'll think that you've never experienced kindness because no one has bent over backwards to help you, and you probably wouldn't notice or let them anyway.

    It's not about people, it's about your life and you can argue differently until your fingers fall off from typing all of this but at the end of the day, you've got to remember you first and then everybody else. "Society" and "Pop culture" may suck but that doesn't mean everyone sucks. There are plenty of good people out there and you can be one of them and be part of the solution. If you don't want to accept that or you want to be offended by it, get defensive or make excuses then I won't bother arguing with you.

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  • suckonthis9
    11 years ago

    Unfortunately, this is how modern society has become. There are many people in the same position as you. It does not seem to matter how nice you are, how intelligent you are, or even sometimes how you look or present yourself. It is who you know, plain and simple.
    It's all influence peddling, from a few very greedy individuals.

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  • MissyLeyneous
    11 years ago

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  • anti-hero
    11 years ago

    I thought everyone felt this way, no?

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  • Bobsbitchtits
    11 years ago

    You are not alone. I'm going through the same stuff. I have been nothing but good to people. Kind, respectful, generous. Worked my ass off yet I always seem to get nothing out of any effort I put into anything. Seems people just walk all over me. I feel as if a higher power wants nothing more than to see me suffer and lose. I have become a very hateful sour volatile person from all of the negative garbage I have been handed in life. Seems people more often than not are stupid, jealous and out for themselves. They see something or someone awesome they want to destroy it or them rather then be a constructive positive addition to it or simply be a true friend....unless they can get something out of it.

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  • ConnorDomes
    11 years ago

    Yes, and No. It is normal to be yourself, but it is not viewed positively in the world today.
    Other people's pure stupidity annoys me a great deal as well, but apart from that i am very friendly, i am loyal like a dog is loyal to it's owner, i am an honorable man and a man of decency.
    There are very few things that can annoy me - one's extreme level of stupidity being one of them.

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  • 1000yrVampireKing
    11 years ago

    Join the club buddy.

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  • dom180
    11 years ago

    Stop judging your happiness relative to everyone else's or you will always find a way to be disappointed and feel inadequate. Concentrate on your own life.

    Everyone has problems inside. Some people (such as celebrities and the kind of friends on Facebook who upload dozens of smiling pictures of themselves with friends every day) put on a facade of being perfectly happy when they're not because nobody is, in the hope of making people like you envious of them. They are actually just as sad as you, and do it to satisfy their own insecurity. Don't give them what they want.

    Just because other people have things you want does not mean they are happier than you are or that their lives are better.

    Last and hardest: learn to be content with little.

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