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I resent being single and I have so many female friends and nothing seems to work out because I'm too nice or get hit with the friend zone... i now resent being single but cant do anything about it... its easy to say go out and meet people but i am very social person and have had a lot of chances but nothing seems to go past one kiss.
When me and a female friend were going through a dry spell, we tried something as an experiment. We arranged a date with each other, pretending we knew nothing about each other. Any time either of us did something that was a no-no in first date terms, we pointed it out to each other. Aside from us learning a lot, we had a fantastic dinner in a nice restaurant.
I hate being single too. But the nice thing about being single is that you don't run the risk of getting your heart broken. And there's also the freedom... But give it time and you'll find someone. Most people do, eventually.
Its better this way trust me , with a man you have to spend money on them , furfill thier needs talk to them . Baby them care were they are all the time relationships are like owning a child so not fun . men its like you have to babysit thats kindve boring .
I don't think its boring to have to baby sit. I have a boyfriend now and having a boyfriend has taught me a lot about love and kindness and what it means to be close to someone. My boyfriend is the best friend I have ever had or dreamed of having. We do everything together. You shouldn't think that having to take care of someone you love is a burden. You do it because you love them and want them to be happy and healthy. Would you not like watching a small kitten or puppy and having to nurture it and take care of it and feed it? Would you rather let it die? That's how love is i think. It is something that needs to be nurtured because love grows. I love my boyfriend more and more the more i nurture and make him happy. It is the best feeling in the world.
Also I tend to dominate most people as I have a very strong personality so I get very having to run things and wish someone would overpower my will power.
I'm just saying that not all relationships are bad including mine because i have a loving caring boyfriend who actually has a soul. Those are rare, very rare. But they are out there. I'm really sorry you had to deal with soulless shit heads as I am sure that has skewed your view on relationships. Just know there is hope that nice, quality guys are still out there. And I really hope you find one. You just have to know where to look. Sci-fi nerds are usually good. They aren't heartless and are usually sensitive from my experience. That's what my boyfriend is and he is really really fun. And I just meant the kitten/puppy analogy as relationships as delicate and needs constant attention- nothing about food. I should have used something more like a flower or something endearing but easily breakable.
Even a housewife can say look he has a houseboat he is much richer than my husband take half his things and go wirh the rich guy. The world is really primative when you get down to it everythings a compition.
My piont is no person is stuck with you a animal is and plant are as they are relient on you for survival. Unless you have a person you take care ypu have no garentee theyll stay and even in such a case can still cheat on you. Thats why the games to pick someone valnurable to play with but having thr upper hand for a person like me is a bore.
well if you get a kitten they are stuck with you and have to love you to get food. If you have a lover they can always get bored and trade up for someone else like most of my lovers and most of my freinds have done in the past. The one person I would have died for I was not even dating but was my best freind and he protected and excepted me. Most my boyfreinds have left me if I did not leave first and or tryed rape me. Also whats the use of babysitting people they can always say one day"forget you I want that new chick with a hott booty or hey sorry Im so gay". Which I have lost alot of people becuase they decided one day they were gay.I do not know I have not had anyone I loved that much and most of them leave for something better. I did love someone like that but thats was my master and he moved I was so heartbroken I have not found anything like that since he left to a diffrent town.Also nothing against gay people just thats my past expireince. Not to damper your spirit I am happy for anyone who finds love but I can never seem anyone Im good with. Also I was trying you make you feel better about being single when I left this comment. If you found love I am happy for you and I hope you too have a wonderful life together and I wish you best of luck and hope you have a big happy family one day and a bright future dear.