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I'm sure it is normal actually, especially if you don't like having attention drawn to yourself. How many of you feel this way too?
| I absolutely hate compliments. | 7 | |
| I dislike most compliments, but can tolerate a few. | 9 | |
| I don't usually mind compliments but sometimes I don't like them. | 10 | |
| I don't care if I get complimented, I brush it off. | 7 | |
| I love being complimented! | 10 |
I dislike how uncomfortable it makes me feel. So, I tend to be quite rude and refute it. My psychologist always told me just to say thank you and move on. I find it difficult. I feel like I'm then obligated to respond with a compliment. That in itself isn't a problem, it's just that I then feel like whatever I say sounds forced and fake (even though I would mean it).
Like you said...it's not liking the attention.
I hate being complimented if I feel it is undeservered/sounds fake- if that made ANY sense whatsoever.
You deleted my comment....
That's understandable, I wasn't being very nice.