Is it normal to hate a friend?

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A few weeks ago at my mates party, I told a friend of 7 years that I like her. Admittedly the drink had loosened my tongue but it was all true, the only reason I hadn't mentioned anything before was because I thought it might ruin our friendship.

She turned me down saying that when ever she told me I was a good friend, that's all I was. And now she has gone to Uni and has unsurprisingly gone clubbing and partying since she's been there. I found out that a she made out with a flatmate during a party, and a friend of another flatmate asked for her number.

I knew nothing was going to happen between us and she is still a great friend, but is it normal for me to hate her now? I can't even talk to her on facebook chat without sounding cold to her.

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Based on 38 votes (31 yes)
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  • ToriahnaChristine695
    13 years ago

    Don't hate anyone. That doesn't get u good first impressions. Let her hate u but don't hate her back. Just try to talk to her about why your so upset. Maybe she didn't realize what she did would actually hurt anyone. Even ask her. You don't have to be all goody goody nice girl. You deserve to fight back. Just say "hey! Dude! What up with that." you don't have to be all " I feel upset because u did this so please blah blah blah"

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  • norcalbuddha
    13 years ago

    Hate's a strong word, but the hurt's all there. Loosen your friendship ties to her for a bit until you can recover.

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  • SillyKitty55
    13 years ago

    its okay to feel sad or angry because she rejected you.
    but you shouldn't hate her. be happy she is still friends with you unless eh makes out with your best friend or something
    lol
    sorry
    that really sucks
    this guy i have been friends with for 6 yrs told me this year he likes me and i do not feel the same way about him.
    he tells me things like random texts inthe middle of the night like your the best and i am like wtf is wrong w u
    cause i dn't even hang out with him anymore!!!
    ever since he told me he gets off of photos of me i have been distant and i hate him now. it is disrespectful on his end to be that way thab try to make me sell myself to him for fuckin money. i am a lady, i am a mother, i was a wife not anymore i am going thru a divorce and this guy still tells me he wants me to be his gf. no matter how many times i tell him no i am not interested i only like u as a friend. he doesn't get it. still
    some guys are fkn retarded literally.(not you-but this guy is)
    be happy she is friends w u

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  • misanthropicninja
    13 years ago

    Well... she did kinda reject you, so it's okay to feel a bit bad about it.

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