Is it normal to grow tired of sex with same partner & crave new one?

Is this my ex-wife?

It's not a different partner you need it's different sex. My Wife's lost interest but I want more sex more often as a man it's a lot of hassle to get sex for free when you want it so I have to pay so I don't have to go on the pull which can be hit & miss and time consuming. It also mean I have good sex with beautiful girls and forfill my deepest fantasy at the same time, toys, position's, two at a time, anal etc and still stay with my wife whom I love so I don't presure he

No this is not normal. Time to grow up.

Lmao@ above cindy

What you have described isn't "NORMAL" solely in the fact that the majority of people do not share your behavior patterns, but it is NOT "strange" behavior.

Some people (male or female) are naturally inclined to be more promiscuous or not "settle down" into family life. It's simply a instinctual "branch" of behavior which has worked to some degree or another because it has continued on for thousands upon thousands of years without being "filtered out" by natural selection.

This really isn't a question of whether or not something is wrong with you (there isn't) it's more a question of are YOU happy with the your life, with not having a single permanent partner?

I can see from you merely asking the question that cultural and social pressures have made you believe that something isn't "right" with how you are when it may very simply be that settling down with one person just CAN'T be your "thing".

You've made it clear that you quickly become unhappy in such a situation and forcing yourself to stay IN such a relationship would do nothing but be damaging to both parties (and any potential children).

I can't offer anything more than opinion one way or the other, but I will say if you are happy "drifting" then do so! I'm nearly 30 myself and haven't "settled down and started a family" and have no plans to do so any time in the future.

Also, Ignoring the other comments thus far wouldn't be a bad idea. These other people are making fun of you and it is not appropriate to do so. Calling you a "slut" is downright rude and inaccurate and as for the advice to "settle down and have a nice family"... This is possibly the WORST advice that could be given to someone who feels like you do, especially if YOU aren't ready to do so.

Some people don't want to "settle down" until much later in life, people NEVER do and there is nothing wrong with them.

You very well may be one of those that never does weigh anchor and will be very happy with your life. The only REAL downside is you will just have to put up with those who do not and can not understand why you are the way you are.

Cheers and I hope you follow the road that makes YOU the happiest!

I agree with gaco

It isn't change of a partner you need. You need to realize that sex is an intimate thing between two people that love each other. Sex is more than physical, it is spiritual, and mental. If the fire isn't there that is because you don't have the mental and spiritual bond. Try reevaluating what life is really about, because it is way more than sex, we may be animals, but we certainly do not have to act like wild ones.

FYI, please don't think of TV as an example of "the norm", because thats the real reason so many people are lost today.

You're not a whore and every guy (and probably most of the girls) who called you that should have to publish an acoount of every sexual experience they ever had, then we'll see who the sluts are.

Sex is fun. If you get bored with the sex, try fun, new ways to have sex. Suggest adding a partner now and then, male or female. You'd be surprised just how many guys are open to that, and most I know would love doing it.

And screw the sexual moralists who treat sex as a crime whenever it's not THEM having it.

Sound like you need to spice up your sex life .committing adultery is not the answer but ending of your relationship

wish this comment/ question was written by my wife :(

And buy the way u r not a slut or whore. Just a women that has her own needs and wants. Try to ignore what ediots have to say.

Try to find yourself. Masturbate change things around. Try swinging or find some one who's willing to have the same needs. I'm married and its not that I bored but I have needs,my understands but they all can not be satisfied. So I always try to keep things very spicey. I have wanted to really let loose and go crazy. But to many worries on who to trust. I think its normal to always wAnt the next exciting situation. Would like to hear bck. Since we have some things in common. Ttys.

I am not saying this to offend you, if you are bored then you are probably boring. Your sex life is what you make of it. If you want to screw around, go out and have fun. If you want a committed relationship then find the right guy and actually do something not to get bored. If that doesn't work maybe you just need to find a guy at a swingers club

I have so much to say to you and lots have been said in the earlier comments.......If I may suggest....start speaking, find someone that you can chat to about the topic and find a way to kill the cycle....I would not mind chatting to you (emailing) about the issue....I have some information on the issue

If you need extra sex fine but keep it to your self nobody need get hurt, just be safe and dont get any STDs most of all dont get caught

Just have fun and don't get attached. dont mislead a good guy that actually want's a reltionship and wont cheat.Karma is a b! If anyhting cheat on the players and badboys since they do it but don't mess with the good guys.

I'm free

go to a club, look like a slut, fuck some guys, and get it out of your system. haha

Try seeing a psychologist. I'm sure that they could help you. Or take a psychology course and maybe you could train yourself to find one person attractive for long periods of time.

How does it feel to be a whore that doesn't get paid?

what made you have sex with a lot of people in the first place. Try just having sex with yourself. Like try some different vibrators and toys and since your not dating you should have enough privacy to really get into it and have some solo fun

Well I can see that you must have a sex problem when you were younger. Sex is not a game to be played. There is no winner or loser. Sex is when your relationship with a man is SO intimate that you REQUIRE sex to become a real relationship. If your not needing the urge to have sex, there must be a reason. You are very normal, how ever, there is a problem.

I believe that you have not had sex in a while. The feeling your having inside is caused by you being turned off from having sex to much when you were younger. I wouldn't advise people to have sex, but in your case you should. If you still feel turned off, then this isn't a commited relationship. Understand??

experiment?

dress up?

handcuffs?

Please.. if you need suggestions, contact me. I have a whole slew of ideas that might help.

This sounds normal to me, I can actually relate to this a lot. I have had some relationships that lasted a while, but attraction tends to fade if I am not totally satisfied with the person. Right now I am staying single because I'm not ready to commit to something long-term and serious. I like the freedom and the control of being single. I can choose to be active or not be active.

Like you, I learned young too, though it wasn't exactly by choice, I was definitely too young. It's normal for past experiences to have a strong impact. But this doesn't mean there's something wrong with you! You're trying things out and learning about what you like. You seem to be aware of what works for you. Go with it! :)

It is normal. The relations cannot be always the same. But I can't see the problem. Maybe it is all you need. If you want the solutions you should give more details.

why dont you tryy turning gay! or laying of sex for 2 years or more! that works! :) it's just like when i eat the same food over and over it gets old then i hate it! BLAH! Then like a year later it's good again, like you forgot how good it was.

Being a whore is not necessary bad. Yet you are one, don't go screw ppl head with pretending not to be one. Not cool to get ppl in love with you just like that.

I would suggest go bang everyone you please as long as you are healthy and just tell them all about you if they persue a serious relationship with you. This way they had it coming too ;)

That is normal. People who call you a whore a jealous because you are doing what they wish they could be doing. Women can be very catty and when they see another woman enjoying sex they get jealous and try to knock you down. It's your life and you won't be alive that long, so do what you want.

The question is: Do you want a long-term relationship? If you do, then you'll have to suck it up and get used to boring sex; I did. The only downside to exciting sex with new partners is that you don't have someone to rely on when the chips are down. Sex partners won't stick by you when you need someone. If you need that, then you need to negotiate a relationship where you and a partner back each other no matter what the circumstances. If you are ok without that kind of support then you are a free individual and should do what makes you happy regardless of what others say. The main thing is that you know yourself and your needs and do the right thing; whatever that is.