Is it normal to grow feelings for boyfriend’s friend?

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In the ending of 2017, my boyfriend (Larry) and I moved to New Jersey to live with my granddad and go to college. In one of his classes, he met our now friend George.

We started hanging out more often to where it was a normal thing. My boyfriend, Larry, isn’t that big on conversation, so I would spend massive amount of time talking to George. George is also incredibly touchy and he will always make fun with me. He is super emotional and I feel like we have a close bond.

I don’t want to date or have a romantic relationship George because I would hate to lose my boyfriend. I view my boyfriend as a best friend and couldn’t see myself losing him. I tried asking about a potential threesome or maybe open relationship, but my boyfriend is completely against it lol.

I like George nonetheless, but it’s just not a good situation to get involved with. I was wondering if anyone else has felt this way. What advice would you recommend?

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  • IrishPotato
    5 years ago

    No.

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  • jethro
    5 years ago

    Are you a guy?

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  • Akumasenpai
    5 years ago

    I have had similar experiences multiple times and this is completely normal. As long as you don`t mindlessly act on those feelings then there is nothing to worry about. It is natural to have small crushes during your relationship. This has nothing to do with how the relationship goes but more with a basically just natural attraction which for god sake you can not turn off. But it is good that you know that you love your boyfriend and you should not doubt it. Basically, it is like having a celebrity crush. It is just the subjective attraction to an individual with desirable features and like the idea of the person. Also, this attraction to the thing you can not have. It is like the forbidden fruit. But all in all, this is normal, your feelings will go away for George or calm down, don't worry and just enjoy your relationship with your boyfriend. Most importantly just don't let this get too much into your head and communicate well with your boyfriend about doubts or feelings.

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  • A-sharp
    5 years ago

    1st use your charms to convince your boy friend into for filing that fantasy ( winks) . then let him know you feel comfortable around his friend ONLY. Then give them HELL up and down that dick.

    Yes, stay with/ keep boyfriend. Now that is going to open a new door with in the relation.

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  • kelili
    5 years ago

    Someday you'll end up in bed with George.

    And I think that yu know it. Lol

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  • CDmale4fem
    5 years ago

    In order to satisfy your feelings for George, I would say go ahead and get him In the sack,let him ride you like a prized thoroughbred. And just simply just you and George keep it a secret between you 2. Then someday you can both do it again and again. And if your bf doesn't step up his game then you can always run to the arms of George.

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