Is it normal to grieve over chickens?

I'll try not to pepper this with self-pity, but no promises...

A couple of years ago, my grandpa got some chickens as pets, and we've been taking care and looking after them. That being said, we live in the country, so it's certainly not an easy task. Dogs have killed some, chickenhawks have got others, we got some more, dogs killed some, chickenhawks got others, ad infinitum. Here recently, my brother-in-law came and got one of our roosters, but he caused such a ruckus in the chicken coop, that one of the hens ran off into the woods, and it's very likely dead now. I was thinking about that, and suddenly heavy tears started pouring from my eyes, for that hen, and all the others that have died. I've just been bawling because they were killed so horrificly, hating myself for not being able to save them and for not being able to console the few still alive. I can't talk to anyone I know, because I'd get the "They're just animals" argument. My question is: Is it normal to be so heartbroken over chickens?

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  • JD777

    Sure, I grew up around a farm and the livestock became more like pets. We even made the mistake of naming a lot of them. But grieving as much as you describe and over things you couldn't control seems a bit over the top.

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    • henman

      Well, just typing it down and getting it out of my system has helped a little. I do tend to go over-the-top sometimes. One of the joys of being a Cancer ;-)

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      • daydreamer394

        Grow up.

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  • ely02mercado

    Be kind to animals as they've said ...

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  • Cuntsiclestick

    As someone who has had chickens before, I can totally understand.

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  • daydreamer394

    This is sweet and just shows you have compassion. I have chickens.

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  • sega31098

    I'd say yes. Even if they are animals many often feel a connection to them. Many farmers in parts of the world refuse to eat beef (yes, outside of India) for that reason.

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    • RoseIsabella

      If I to take care of farm animals I might just turn vegetarian. Probably not, but I might. You never know.

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