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I have this friend at my college who look like a hippie. He has a nice butt. I see him in skinny jeans and khakis. I really wanted to squeeze his butt, but I never get the opportunity. I was wondering what is the best time to do it?
If you're a chick, grab his butt, he won't mind. BTW, grab his dick and balls also.
As a guy who had it happen through highschool and college: No, people do mind.
The standard set by men is that they'd welcome it. Are you really saying it's unfair to hold men to the standards the male gender set for themselves?
The guys who don't like it should just shut up and conform to the standard or prepare to be demeaned. If you don't like women grabbing you and you express that openly, then society has the right to call you gay, prude, and a sissy based on the standards the male gender has set and upheld.
Oh my god! I got thumbed down for simply putting reason over feelings? For merely pointing out how social norms should subject people to abuse? You're kidding.
What you're doing is promoting violent masculinity, which leads to bullying and judgmental social perspectives. Though this may be somewhat close to how society is, I don't think it's okay to be okay with that. We should try to change so men don't have to conform. Society does not have the right to call you gay, prude or a sissy based on any standards. Does society have the right to call someone fat, or call a mentally challenged person, retarded? No they don't. Well technically everybody has the "right" but it doesn't make it the right choice. AT ALL. Rethink your thoughts on how to treat people. This is not 1960. I am sickened by this comment.