Is it normal to go after a girl who already has a boyfriend?

i'm having a crush on a girl in my class, but she has a boyfriend.
but whenever i talk, she listens to me, smiles a lot at me, looks at me all the time, (even when i'm not looking) i found that out when i suddenly look at her, she is looking at me.
is there any chance for me, and if there is, then how?

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Comments ( 14 )
  • jenjen06

    Leave her alone. If she wanted to be with you she wouldn't be with her boyfriend. She's with him for a reason it's not like he's a nobody in her life. If she does really like you she'll break up with him to be with you. Or cheat on him which in that case you don't want her anyway.

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    • coldharbour

      i did not go for her, but somehow i learnt that she tried to break up with that guy, but the guy threatened her that he will kill himself.....
      so she is not leaving him.....
      and then she showed positive interest to me, like she was very interested in talking to me, and she talked to me for a long time.......

      will it work, and if it does, will it last?
      please tell me...

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  • Vampgirl

    When a girl listens intently when you speak, smiles a lot, licks her lips a lot or plays with her hair a lot she is flirting. And when a girl stares at a guy she is definately into him...we don't stare for no reason! Sounds to me she likes you dude...but now you got only one problem, the spycho boyfriend and I can't help you there...

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    • coldharbour

      i will have no trouble dealing with him, and if he threatens me, i'll show him whom to threaten and whom to not....
      even when i'm speaking, she is smiling, and so enthusiastic in talking with me....

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  • chick756

    Lol....u never know....but maybe it doesn't mean anything...she may look at you...but don't even think of anything...that's where some guys go wrong...

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  • jenjen06

    Then they shouldn't be in that relationship anyway

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  • Concerned3rdparty

    murder suicide

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  • BoredGuy

    you want to be on her boyfriend's place when she go for her next bf?

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    • coldharbour

      she'll never, as i make sure she is happy and satisfied with me.....

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      • BoredGuy

        no such thing.

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        • coldharbour

          youre right bro......
          double date?

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  • IDontAskMuch

    I'd say leave well alone and let the relationship she is in right now take it's course and if you are destined to be together it will happen by itself. If not then it was never meant to be in the first place. Don't tread on other peoples toes because you wouldn't like another guy hitting on your girl would you. Or would you??

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  • georgienne

    Jenjen, many people don't like the relationship they're in. Don't make that assumption.

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  • georgienne

    Ask her out.. That's how.

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