Is it normal to give up saying hi to anyone

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i tend to be a people pleaser and most of the time, i am the one to initiate conversation, say hi, be the friendly one and the majority of "friends" that i have, never engage. they never say hi, they never show they are interested in me, they make me feel as if i am nothing. So i am going to never say hi again and see what happens. Is this normal? i am going to go from being a super social butterfly to someone who is practically mute. Will they even notice?

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Based on 26 votes (19 yes)
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  • GoraIntoDesiGals
    10 years ago

    Hi

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  • yesnomaybeso
    10 years ago

    Hi there too :p
    I agree, whenever I see that i'm the one always starting the conversations I get this feeling .. that they don't really want to talk to me. So I try to stop myself from saying hi and see if they talk. If not, i guess we were never real friends.... (and although some people are very forgetful and do wanna speak to you but they're always busy, i always think that if you really want to speak to a person, you find a way.)

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  • ganesha
    10 years ago

    Hello there! ;-)
    I really feel you on this one!
    Do you want to talk to me instead?

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  • thegypsysailor
    10 years ago

    Probably not. Obviously your friends don't give two shits about you so it's good you've finally got the hint. Way to pick your friends.

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  • Unimportant
    10 years ago

    Hi there :-)
    Personally, I think greeting each other every day is a very useless tradition, but you seem to have a whole other problem with it, so I'm gonna shut up now.

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