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After ten years of marriage I have given up having sex with my wife and now suck cock. She knows nothing about my bisexual practices. Is this normal?
It's cheating, no excuses! I don't give two shits about your stupid feelings on this one, because you have two choices, asshole: you can stay with your wife and not cheat on her period or you can leave her to go pursue your queer life. For God's sake be a man! Cheaters are losers and shitty immoral people in their souls! If bad things happen to you for cheating then you deserve it!
Else your on this site a lot 9/10 times I see you commenting on nothing and 10/10 times I see your comments it's always about you criticizing people.
If the person is a rapist or a child molester then it's a good thing. I side with victims not perpetrators. Yeah, it's probably inhumane, but I figure perverts renounce their humanity when the rape and molest.
What part of 99 times out of 100 don't you understand? And no if she's ever written that, which I don't remember, I don't agree with it even though I've wanted to do something similar to the creature who raped me and still stalks me
The two of them can become a cock sucking duo, doing MFM threesomes. She sounds like the lucky one.
Cheating is such an antiquated concept and fidelity is a farce. You are judgmental and ridiculous. In my experience, judgmental people are covering up their own indiscretions.
You don't know this person, their relationship, the battles each is fighting or what burns in their hearts. What gives you the right to judge anyone?
You must be a mega cheater, you judgmental ass. I won't wish bad things on you though. Only a shithead with shitty morals would do that. Gawd I hate people like you.
Now look what you've done. I was going to spread love and sunshine today.
A lot of men find out they are really gay years after getting married. Why not divorce your wife and allow her to have a relationship with a man who will be able to give her pleasure and vice versa?
Then write your own fucking post and don't bother me with your crap, OK? I've no interest in your opinion of my posts.
Im in this exact spot. I love her but find I want cock in my mouth more. Have to figure out what is best.
I just got tired of going without sex when she lost interest. So I started sucking cock and now it's my sex of choice. Now I'd rather have a big cock blowing a load in my mouth than begging my wife or a female for pussy. I still love her though but just adapted to be able to get my needs met.
People get upset when [marriage] the social normal fails or does something different.
Ten years is a good ride, but now go get a divorce.
And yes, people would be upset with you if it was another woman.
Divorce is not the only option to a failed relationship. For those who have never gone through a divorce its probably nothing more than a word and a seemingly easy action.
But its not, there is or can be much more to divorce than meets the eye and that most people can understand. I've been there and done that so I can speak from experience.
After 10 years two people will have a significant amount of their lives intertwined in every aspect, bills, investments like homes etc., kids, and more. Its a long, dirty, ugly, painful process to get things untangled...unless one person opts to leave with nothing and start over from scratch. This means starting over with significant debt if you have kids either way.
The saying its "Its Cheaper to Keep Her" is real.
If two people can manage to live their separate lives under one roof, it might be an ugly alternative to the even uglier alternative of divorce. I'd say more people opt for the least ugly lifestyle and keep their standard of living etc in tact vs. divorce.
In my estimation given the 100% of married people, I'd say only 10% or less are actually happy and are still in a growing thriving relationship after 10 years. The rest are either divorced or living in a shell of a marriage and sucking other men's cocks on the side while trying to maintain a normal home life.
Would you all have been so judgmental if I had been having sex with another woman?
If you were with another woman, you'd still get angry responses. Cheating is cheating no matter if you're straight, gay, or bi. Perhaps you should cut your losses and get a divorce so you can experiment freely and let her find someone else?
It doesn't make any difference to me, I'd still agree with the suggestions that you either end it with your wife or stop cheating on her
I did the same after 25 years of marriage and 4-5 years of declining sex and then no sex after repeated 'begging'. I finally got tired of it. First I got my dick sucked off and on for a year or more. Then I tried sucking dick. Liked it and haven't stopped for the last ten years.
I still love my wife and we do lots of things together and enjoy our life. Biggest difference is I'm not as frustrated and she is too not having to come up with excuses.
I am a cocksucker now is the main difference.
I don't care if anyone else disapproves or wants to judge.
I agree I am gay and love sucking married Mens cock !! Most married men Turn to sex with men because they get what they want with no dating.. then when Ed sits in they start to suck cock and even want fuck . Once you fuck them they become sluts I have two that I use two times a week as cum dumps . When I done they thank me for using them like sluts !! To me they where gay when they married and when the sex stop they come out and become sluts for cock and cum . They say they love there wife but love cock and cum more now . To me if you love your wife then why have gay sex with a gay man ?? For me i love turning them out and using them as cum sluts !!
You're cheating on your partner which invokes feelings of disgust in me. Listen to RoseIsabella; either tell your wife it's not working out and go suck all the dicks you want or end your homosexual tendencs and stay loyal to your wife.
This is basically my story but I gave up expecting poor quality and infrequent sex from my wife after ten years of marriage. I know that if I want to suck cock and swallow cum I am likely to be able to do so without difficulty.
If you get the urge you may come over and suck my dick any day of the week!
Only normal if your wife is blonde, slim, tallish, looks great while being fucked from behind yet is unable to orgasm.
On the other hand having a fat cock in your mouth can't be all that bad.