Is it normal to give in to my friends perversion?

There are at least a few different sayings, one of which is "If they not getting any at home they will find it somewhere". Of course the others that come to mind are meant for married couples. But I can say that I have been in that situation (of the friend). I used to work with a female that I got to know very well when we worked at the Post Office. The real difference here,I think, was she wasn't happily married. She was a mail order bride, she worked swing shift,I worked graveyard, and her husband worked days. Yes we all worked in the same building. We as humans crave, desire and borderline need the affection of those we partner up with, and especially when the relationship gets to the point of "I love you's", but yet we are not seeing it, or even feeling the love or the desire that we hope our partner stills carries for us. I would say talk to your bf, ask him what he really wants from your relationship. Also, is one of you (u and bf) not working and the other stays home a lot or is it still a 50/50 within the relationship. My point being, is one of you there for someone to support the other and a place to live ? If I was in a relation ship, having sex 3 times better happen within the first 5 days of relationship or living together. I know that me as a guy I have seen many times where the guy is a lazy shit and expects the woman to take care of all his wants needs and desires, and in return he feels if he sexes her up now and then to keep her happy then he won't be living either on the streets or back with mom and dad. Otherwise, I would say he PROBABLY KNOWS you are sexually frustrated with exception of your usual nightly rounds of self gratification. For a guy to only want sex 3 times in 2 years, either he's seeing someone else, he's gay, or just has no sexual desires. It's your turn to be a detective and find out what you are up against. BTW FWIW- the female I was seeing from work, I was so madly in love with her that I would have done almost anything to keep her in my life. But in the end that wasn't what she wanted. So maybe find out what your bf wants. Good Luck, Be Careful you don't get them in a war with each other over a warm wet vagina and a few hours of attention. So what did the bf say or do when you gave the friend the hand job in front of him ? Or if you are just not feeling it and you probably won't lose sleep over it, if you feel breaking it off with bf is the better option, then I have wrote this all out for nothing. Do what you feel is the best way for you to go. But if you want the friend, you might make sure he will want you if you break up with bf. Sometimes it's just the idea of it being taboo and you could get caught. Without that it may not be as fun to him.

Time to move on.
Don't waste your life.