Is it normal to give away your virginity because you want sex that bad

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First off, I am a martial artist and the full body contact with the boys is driving me insane.
I am a 25 year old virgin (FEMALE) and I am very ready to give it up now. I haven't been with anyone in almost 2 years now and I think its kind of making me crazy. A few years ago I wanted to save my virginity for the man I intended to marry ...but now, to hell with it he ain't coming along any time soon. Sex is constantly on my mind especially after I train (which is almost everyday) But my questions is ... if I give it up just 'cause I need some physical lovin (and don't care for the emotional part) will I regret it? anybody else given it up just 'cause they wanted to do it? any thoughts? any suggestions? please help!

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  • Blitzi
    13 years ago

    I'm a guy and I think it's awesome when a girl wants to save herself. Me and my brother were both going to do that, but for various reasons we haven't. I'll tell you now that if you can find a good man, he'll respect you alot more if you've saved yourself. some guys will tell you otherwise - but those arent real men.

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  • SammySpammy
    12 years ago

    I thought I'd never regret loosing my virginity to someone I barley knew because I didn't buy the whole lose it to someone you love cliché.

    Well I was wrong! My first time was awful - terrible to be honest. The guy I lost it to was a complete idiot who had no idea what he was doing, and though he used a condom (which he opened with his teeth btw)the fact of pregnancy scared me. Never again will I put myself through such worry and paranoia for someone so not worth it. Also It hurt like hell and he was not gentle at all. I told him to stop but he wouldn't, and when it ended it left me feeling kinda put off sex...

    I'm not gonna tell you what to do, but if I were you I would loose it to someone who cares about you and is considerate. Did I regret loosing my virginity to someone I hardly knew? Yeah I guess. If you do decide to loose it, just make sure the guy doesn't open a condom wrapper with his teeth lol... Will you regret it? Probably!

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  • korn3654
    13 years ago

    You will completely regret it.

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  • motherlovebone69120
    9 years ago

    I lost my hetro virginity at 17, but still need to lose my ass and oral virginity to a guy and I have the same questions. I really want it bad, but wonder if I will feel lousy afterward. I still crave passion and some semblance of romance even in a gay encounter. I truly believe this man exists and I will meet him some day.

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  • michael415
    13 years ago

    I am a martial artist also and am expieriencing the same problem

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    You won't regret it unless you catch a disease. Your virginity is useless and not special

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