Is it normal to give a guy his bday present on the 1st date?

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Ive seen this guy at my friends wedding,Ive liked him instantly.Ive added him on facebook,he didnt remember from the wedding but we still kept in touch online,I like him.He said he is interested to see where this is going,we organised to meet up next week,it was his birthday a few days ago& i wished him happy birthday,now im not sure should i buy him bday gift and give it to him when we meet for the 1st time? Will it be too much or not? Is some kind of perfume a good idea?

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  • CountryRoads
    13 years ago

    Noooo don't get anything other than a card for him. It's too early; you'll creep him out.

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  • dappled
    13 years ago

    You sound sweet but I wouldn't overdo it. Maybe a birthday card?

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  • Noonesperfect
    12 years ago

    No don't, maybe wait for next year?

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  • carlosmn
    13 years ago

    For your first date, just a hand job, anything more would be inappropriate

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago

    It's a first date...I think I'd reconsider cologne or any other gift right now. Perhaps just an amusing birthday card or offer to pay for the date in honor of the special day.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Save money-- just give him a birthday kiss in your birthday suit.

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  • daan
    13 years ago

    If something of this nature comes up for me, i would probably give sonething and the say some bad excuse that barely makes sence .. Works for me..but im know for being a bit stupid yet smart with stuff like that

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  • caroline88
    13 years ago

    R u serious? Im not that kind of girl..

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  • caroline88
    13 years ago

    To wigsplitz: no,u are wrong&harsh,he did invite me to his bday drinks but i couldnt go coz of work,he also said that he told some of his friends about me,he asked for my mob number a while ago,ive also mentioned it to him that i dont want this to be one sided,he said its not and that he is interested as same as me to see where this is going&he said he has a feeling where it might go but he doesnt want to say it not to jinx it... So how does it sounds to u? He also said that i sound like a nice girl..

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    • DrinaVonCheez
      12 years ago

      He wants youuuuuu lol

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  • CountryRoads
    13 years ago

    Aghhh a good idea would be like a tiny helicopter toy thing and say "now that you know how to fly one, I figured id buy you one"

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  • caroline88
    13 years ago

    Thanks guys for all of ur comments,well i suggested we go out for drinks but he said he doesnt want to go for drinks for 1st time we meet and that we both would be under influence and he wont be able to get to know 'the real me' hes actually the first guy who doesnt want to go for drinks during 1st meeting,im not sure if its a good thing or not?? so i said lets meet at the shopping centre,so i dont know if its a date or not..

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    • wigsplitz
      13 years ago

      He's being nice, he didn't have the balls to say no, he wants to be able to get rid of you in time to be able to go out with his friends for drinks.

      I'm not being mean, I'm just being honest. From the sounds of things, he's not nearly as interested in you as you are in him.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    get him something tiny, then its the thought that counts and he might think its sweet or funny

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  • wigsplitz
    13 years ago

    NO!! No gift!! That REEKS of desperation and stalker potential. Do you hear me?? Don't do it!!

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  • caroline88
    13 years ago

    What do u mean by saying hes not for me if he wears perfume? I meant male perfume as cologne and so on,so any of u dont think that he wont be happy if i dont buy him a gift? He did mention to me that one of his presents were helicopter flying lessons&he was so happy about it.. So i think there is a chance that he will think that im not into him if i dont get him a gift and wouldnt i look a bit cheap if i only get a bday card? Whats ur opinions on this?

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago

    If he wears perfume then I'm not sure you're the one for him...

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    • dappled
      13 years ago

      hehe

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  • Darkoil
    13 years ago

    Not if you want a second date.

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    No that's something you do for people you know well.

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  • rayst
    13 years ago

    Nooo its only the first time, don't worry he won't be disappointed. I think it would scare him to receive a 50-100$ gift on the first date. Personally i wouldn't buy anything but if you really wanna be sweet buy him a card

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  • SSGMACRET
    13 years ago

    Don't do it!! I would be a little freaked out... And you might come accross as a stalking type!! Yikes!

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