Is it normal to get upset with my bf for looking at porn?

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Is it normal to get upset with my boyfriend for looking at porn? He doesn't do it constantly or anything like that but it still bothers me that he looks at it.
He tells me that almost all guys look at porn and I should be lucky that he doesn't look at it all the time!
However, I feel that if he's sexually satisfied and finds me as attractive as he says... then why does he need to look at other women?

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Based on 13 votes (5 yes)
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  • snafu
    11 years ago

    watch it with him and don't be so up tight , or leave him for a bloke that does not watch porn!! Good luck with that !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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    • PrincessJ
      11 years ago

      haha, this was almost two years ago. since then i have left the bloke :P and haven't found one that doesn't watch porn but i grew out of it bothering me for sure.

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  • Whosthat?
    13 years ago

    I do not agree with the above comment. If you yourself are uncomfortable with your boyfriend watching porn why do so yourself? Perhaps you should just sit down with him and explain how uncomfortable it makes you feel. Porn doesn't really mean much to guys, unless there not getting any. If you are having sex with him regularly and he says he finds you sexy then porn shouldn't mean anything to him. Im sure he loves you enough to care about your feelings, and would much rather have you feel comfortable than uncomfortable.

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  • aussiewolf
    13 years ago

    i used to hate it too but i was a lot younger then. most guys watch porn and the ones who say they dont, are liars.
    guys respond to visual stimulation and in most situations it doesnt have anything to do with the amount of sex your having, unless of course you are hardly having any then you gotta give the guy a break! but it doesnt have anything to do with what you look like or that, as he has stated. even if a guy was going out with a supermodel, he would still watch porn and jerk off.
    not many women would be okay with this like i am, i actually really like to have my own porn sessions occasionally and my husband and i watch it together too. it just spices things up.
    maybe buy some sexy lingerie and play some games, pretend to be in a porno with him. if you get him so turned on, the next time he jerks off, he wont need porn, he will be thinking about the hot sex sessions he has had with you!
    check out some porn and see if you can find things that turn you on, experiment a little with yourself, if you know what i mean.

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    • PrincessJ
      13 years ago

      @Super Louis- If he wanted more sex, he would get it. I rarely turn him down.

      @Aussiewolf- I am still pretty young, so I guess it may come with my age? Thank you for the advice, I really do appreciate it.

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  • blackjackWIFE
    13 years ago

    I completely agree with aussiewolf- couldn't have said it better myself. I think u just need to loosen up and explore some new things. Your man will thank you for it!

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  • Ribbit.
    13 years ago

    I see where you're cuming from. If it bothered my love I would never watch it again.

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  • SuperLouis
    13 years ago

    He wants more sex!

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