Is it normal to get turned on most by kissing?

Im a guy 24 y/o and I notice that during sex or just messing around, I get most turned on when the girl kisses me, and the softer the better... I just feel like when she does that she really wants me or like cares about me or something... where a lot of girls I meet just want to get plowed hard but that doesnt really turn me on.... I know thats weird for a dude but its something I noticed... Like turns me on more than just sex with no kissing... BTW before someone says it, I know im not gay because im not attracted to guys

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  • dappled

    You like kissing girls. Of course you're not gay. I actually think sexuality is more based on who you like kissing than who you like having sex with.

    Anyway, yes, it's fairly normal. Kissing is great!

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  • southernbarbie16

    There needs to be more sweet guys like you out there!!

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  • Amii360

    Kissing is awsome !! its a major turn on , kissing is even better if they kiss you on the neckk 1

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  • Anon146

    I get what you mean, and it's... well, totally normal. Not common, but normal, and in a good way. From the way you describe it, you really care, you know? It's hard to find a guy like that.

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  • 8Serene8

    Lol just because you like kissing doesn't make you gay. I myself get uber turned on from kissing alone especially if it's passionate with some tounge. It's the best.

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  • ebonyyclara

    thats really sweet, i prefer sex with kissing tooooo (:

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  • LamornMai

    This is definitely normal. I love kissing and it turns me on to no end when my girlfriend gets really in to it - passionate and intense!

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  • spinnert

    I love kissing. There's nothing wrong with it. I like iot too and people tell me I'm a more romatic guy. I have no idea where gay fits into this???

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  • vsbrian

    kissing is the best thing in the world!!!
    thats not being gay! thats being awesome

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  • photoincognito

    Ooooooo me too, how you doing? ;)

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  • Threedayz

    Yes, I feel the same. If I had to choose, I would rather passionately French kiss my wife than have sex. Just so intimate and passionate. It's really the best foreplay--I don't think anything turns me on more. And then of course kissing while having sex. And then more little kisses when we're done... I'm also a guy.

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  • everybody is different, some people (like you) are turned on by that kind of stuff. personally i am turned on by a girl getting naked, but whatever floats your boat buddy

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  • tarebear19

    Your awesome! My man is the same way!

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  • isit123

    ummmm..... I'm pretty

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  • sparrowfeed

    i like kissing but PLOWING? C'mon .. nothing beats a complete, utter plowing. Devastation. The harder, the better.

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  • gako

    You sound hot. Add me lol

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  • trav1085

    it's normal I love it when my gf kisses my neck a lot up/down and it's kind of messy but it's really a turn on.

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  • *remy*

    I love kissing when i have sex thats the way u get things started! If u or any one esle thinks ur gay then fuck them an ur cruzy, keep kissin,
    more man need to start!

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  • *remy*

    I love kissing when i have sex thats the way u get things started! If u or any one esle thinks ur gay then fuck them an ur cruzy, keep kissin, more man need to start!

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  • fulmater

    My wife is the same way. Kissing gets her motor running faster than anything else

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  • BoredGuy

    you are ghey or bi or just too unfortunate to born a male with low level of testosterone.

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