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I'm NOT a pedophile, I swear it. This girl, she's about 16 has been deliberately trying to turn me on, perhaps for me to have sex with her. I tell her to stop, but I do end up getting turned on and I feel very bad about myself when it happens. I don't think i'm sexually attracted to her, but I cant help it.
You're right. You're not a pedophile... because pedophilia is sexual attraction to pre-pubescent girls. Since she is 16 yrs old, then she is not pre-pubescent, and therefore you're attraction to her is valid. YES... now that you understand what pedophilia is and isn't... you can admit that you find her sexually attractive. So, just sex her brains out!
Heck, when I was 16 I flirted with older men, and had sex with my high school history teacher when I was 17. It's normal, so embrace it, and enjoy the hell out of it. Keep in mind, the age of consent is 16 in most countries. Be safe, and have fun! ;-)
HOWEVER, age of consent in majority of the United States, if that's where you are, is 18 with a few exceptions. On military bases, and some (very few) states age of consent is indeed 16. BUT- BE CAREFUL. Its not worth a 5 minute lay. Then if charges are brought and you get in trouble, you will HAVE to register as a RSO (registered sex offender). That would change your entire future for employment, places you can and can't go if minors frequent places. Amusement parks, movie theaters, etc. MY POINT-ITS NOT WORTH IT.
You most likely are reading into her actions too much if you think a 16 year old is going for you. If that's not convincing enough, I'm in college now. In high school several times, a girl has said to me "I can ruin his life" by flirting with a maintenance worker in the school because they think it's funny..
That is Definitely not Normal, And I agree with Recluded inform her parents, This is the way young girls find trouble without realizing how serious it is, To them it's a funny game,The old saying if you put the bait out someone will Bite.
Stay away from her. Talk to her parents about what exactly she's been doing.
You need to stop. And you're not trying hard enough to make her stop. Because if a person really wants someone to stop, they will make it stop. So stop acting like you are trying to get her to stop and she doesn't. There is a part of you that likes it obviously, and that is why you're not trying hard enough to put an end to it. May not be a pedophile, but it does sound like pedophilia. And you better be careful with who you talk to about this, because people will kill a person for admitting your kind of urges. You want to save yourself from getting in deeper, shut that shit down!
Of course its normal for a male to get turned on from female advances. But she's 16, she's a dumbass whose brain ain't fully developed plus its illegal to bang a minor. You're not trying hard enough to put an end to it dude. Use your first head!