Is it normal to get tried of having sex with wife?
we have been married 30 plus years,and now I have a hard time enjoying sex with her.we have tried to do kinky things but is not into it.
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we have been married 30 plus years,and now I have a hard time enjoying sex with her.we have tried to do kinky things but is not into it.
Well, I suppose this is a bit of an interesting conundrum. Humans are not stagnant creatures. We like things to change so having sex with the same person for 30 years can lead us as humans to get a bit bored with the notion of it.
However, on the contrary to that humans also are one of the creatures that are more than capable of being monogamous and loving one person for the entirety of our lifespan.
My question to you would be are you tired of sex all together? Or is it just with her? Do you get excited by the idea of having sex with a different woman and the final question would be do you still love your wife?
If you do a bit of digging you'll find yourself an answer sooner or later.
Try hot candle wax, drip a lit candle on your chests, slowly, whilst massaging eachother's erogenous zones. It will feel like a burning sensation, but get past that and it's very erotic.
women interest in sex dries up when they stop dropping eggs . buy then is a slow process where they turn into old men. Trust me . you look forward to the day you become impotent. its important to have a goal other than women at your age , children or become the richest man alive , that shit works, its how we got Trump. If it makes you feel any better , im getting tired of sex with your wife as well.
You say you've done kinky things. Well, "kinky things" to someone who is sexually conservative may consider something like using handcuffs kinky... but to those of us who are sexually liberal, then using whips and chains may be considered kinky.
SO... you say you've tried to do kinky things... What "kinky things" have you done?
I'm curious, because I'm guessing you've done some very minimal kinky things, since you say you are having a hard time having sex with your wife. My guess is you 2 are a couple of prudish bores who have very little imagination and almost no sense of adventure.
So... what kinky things have you done?