Is it normal to get sexually aroused by the parents during puberty?

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Hi, I know it sounds a bit insane, but this is extremely serious. Is it normal for a bi/gay guy to have sexual thoughts for a short time period during puberty about his own father? Im a 18 years old bisexual male, and yesterday I just suddenly mentioned to myself that somewhere between 14-15 years old, for something like a few months, I was sexually fantasizing about my father.
im so freaked out now. is it normal? what does it mean?? please help me, im really anxious.
BTW, I might have some grammer mistakes, sorry about that...

dont get me wrong, I didnt really wanted something sexual with him, or tried to seduce him, but thinking about his body used to get me aroused.. I dont think I even fantasized about doing something sexual with him, but, again - I got aroused by his body.. I never wanted to act on these thoughts. I dont think I was even included in these sexual thoughts.. again - it was just images of his body.
im not aroused by him anymore. as I said - it was a pretty short period of time(few months I think), a few years ago. it really passed, but for some reason its freaking me out now.
my life is pretty normal and I was never sexually abused or something like that. I was always fine with my father and always liked him as a father(even at the period of time when I had sexual thoughts about him). theres even a girl that I love and sexually attracted to, but in these last two days I cant think about nothing but the anxiety and the fear.. please help me. is it common for bi/gay guys to have sexual thoughts about their father for a period of time in their lives/during the puberty/when they're pretty newly aware of their sexuality?
im afraid that it means something about my relationship with my father, or makes me exlusively gay, and not BI as I always knew, or thought I am (because I never had any sexual thoughts about my mother or sister, but also not about my brothers, and I can be aroused by hetero porn and I get an erection while hugging the girl that I love or while fantasizing about her).

please, please help me.

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  • teendicksuckers
    6 years ago

    We always did

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  • Personality_girl
    9 years ago

    Dude. Listen up! Puberty is weird! But sexually attracted is terrifieing for some people (sorry about grammar) i fear everyone i meet wants my body!!!!! But calm down and breath!

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  • PrincessLollipop
    12 years ago

    It's normal according to what I have read/heard in my psychology classes. Just don't act upon it!

    They say a child's first love is our parents! :)

    When I was younger, my parents told me the person you marry is the person who completes you, loves you, makes you happy, etc. That being, I asked if i could marry my dad! LOL (I didn't, wouldn't, & am not attracted to him in any possible way!!)

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    • DandyElfman
      10 years ago

      You do love your parents. You have to. If you are planning on screwing your parents that is not normal and I suggest getting some help.

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    • [Old Memory]
      12 years ago

      What kind of psychology classes have you been taking? What a bunch of damned Freudian garbage.

      Now to the OP, I suppose I wouldn't really know, but I'm quite sure that that's definitely not normal. Regardless, it's in the past; try to get over it and move on.

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      • PrincessLollipop
        12 years ago

        Definitely Freud, LOL.

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