Is it normal to get rejected because of my personality and disability

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I am 19 turning 20 later this year and I have never kissed a girl because I have aspergers
syndrome (a mild form of autism) and ADHD and I get make fun of because of my disability and everytime I ask a girl out I get rejected and it's not fair and when I try to talk to a girl I'm too nervous and shy and I'm at the end of the rope because if my friends can be kissed why can't I? I'm very polite, smart and caring guy and I feel that girls I know from my old high school (which I graduated from last year) perfer looks over personality I have tried online dating via social media and as a result it worked better because the girls I meet online are more understanding of my personality.
Is this normal?

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Based on 18 votes (14 yes)
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  • JazzDiva
    7 years ago

    Don't worry your life is not over your only 20. I had a guy explain how his father, brother, and brother had it and he's married. Dont rush life dont worry. Shell come one day.

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  • Kookulainamus
    7 years ago

    10% of the guys get 90% of the impulsive sex. Sad but true.

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  • DuHast
    7 years ago

    Normal even for people without adhd/aspergers..

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  • (s)aint
    7 years ago

    It´s perfectly fine to meet people online rather than approching them IRL.

    And it´s also normal for people to not want to date people with Adhd/aspergers.

    I have ADHD and I can absolutely see why people would consider that to be a problem.

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    • Juantheman96
      7 years ago

      Pretty good advice :)

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  • mysistersshadow
    7 years ago

    Sounds normal. Most ppl with Asbergers are abrasive and socially awkward. It will make dating difficult. Not sure why you say its not fair tho ppl are allowed to only want to be with some one they like.

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