Is it normal to get positive reaction scince i was a kid on seeing my pkg
I grew up in a nudist home very open very honest about everything nudity was just a way of life. My dad traveled for his job so it was my stepmother and my three older sisters at the house with me. And as you can guess they was a lot of teasing from my sisters since I was the only male in the house. As I got older the teasing settle down and my mother and my second oldest sister were the closest of all of us in the family. Along about 12 or 13 years old my mother and my second oldest sister made a discovery about my size evidently I was a little bit out of the ordinary for my age I had to have surgery on my left testicle to shrink it and all the sudden I gain a few inches literally. I was 8 inches at 12 or 13 years old. I can't remember which one and I never got a crossword I never was teased again. And it looked like that I was becoming more part of the family so to speak. My mother took me in the bedroom set me down and explained that my size was a little bit different than my friends and that I had responsibilities two handle myself in a manner that was becoming of a young man growing up. My mother and my sisters called it a gift. We were raised with respect we were raised not to judge and we are also raised not to flauntor our lifestyle or talk somebody into our lifestyle or defend our lifestyle. Now you can imagine that that age being told all this information was more or less going in one ear and out the other. I was too focused on going outside and playing basketball, football or riding my bike in the back. but I listened. As I got older and the more people who saw what I had. I matured quite rapidly and it grew of course. but the question I think I have always wanted an answer to Is Why between my early teen years until my age now around 50 years old, have I never received a derogatory comment or disgusted look? I remember all positive responses from teenage girl's (family members) to adults. It seemed that the younger generation wanted to look at it and stare and ask questions. And the reason for that statement is because I raised my two girls and my two step daughters in the nudists lifestyle. And that's basically what they did they were very curious they stared a lot and ask a lot of questions. Family members, to regular friends in our Circle. They would all come over and just look and try not to be obvious and just stare at least some of them but even be adults wood ask questions. But after that, we went on with the normal way of life whatever we're doing that weekend. but I always, well maybe not always. but sometimes I felt like a side show atraction at times because of all the attention that I got. now 51 I'm only 11 5/8 inches long and bigger around of course that stands to reason everybody matures. But as my kids got older most of their friends would come over and basically do the same thing look ask questions,and almost be memorized is what really surprised me. the only difference friends are family are anybody between just showing up out of the clear blue is their parents knew our lifestyle and everybody had a discussion about it before the girls friends started coming over. When they got into college and the work environment a lot of the girls were a little leery understandably at first. but as my daughter's explained our lifestyle they became a little more comfortable with the situation. then they would just come over like it was no big deal,well I say most friends would come over when they got into college and the work place. But mind you everyone who was invited to any event barbecue Crab Boil etc!they were all warned ahead of time. The girls had their speech down pat. They would tell them. My dad is not going to put clothes on, so if you are offended buy a man that's nude then you probably won't want to come over. now there are times where I would put clothes on because of certain circumstances. But even my girl's friends, family members, regular friends that I've known for years.even people that I've never met have never looked away in disgust or said anything derogatory. I started noticing the responses and the actions of guests and friends and even our new friends that we would make along the way. Responses have been in the same always very positive. I still want to know where the term it's so pretty or it's beautiful comes from because I don't see it. LOL so with all that being said and a little bit of background. I appeal to the women of this forum to chime in with an opinion. now please understand there's nothing special about me. I've owned my company for several years, my children are grown 2 in college and 2 in the workplace. they're very successful. And they're very focused on career and school. my lifestyle is no different than anybody else's except for the fact we don't work clothes at home. I just thought I would pose this question to find out if women May disagree with these thoughts and what the younger aged girls 18 and above what their thoughts are, or whether or not any guy out there has gone through the same thing I have gone through. now mind you this question will not keep me up at night. This question will not alter my lifestyle in any way. I can still run my business. And I can still maintain the same live I'll always add LOL. I thought an answer might be out there somewhere. and please this is not supposed to be a derogative post. Or a sexual post. I'm looking for real answers and please keep it clean.