Is it normal to get paranoid about what my gf is doing...

Earlier today my girlfriend and i went to denny's to get some grub... well, i was on her phone looking up something on the web when she gets a texted from a random #... the text said, "hi her name" i asked her who's that. she said she didnt know... i asked her to text the number back to ask who it was... well after that we went to pick up a friend from work... im driving i can tell shes on her phone while im driving... well i ask who it was and she told me that person never text back... honestly for me whenver i text someone and say hi and then they text back who is this i respond quickly right? about 2hrs later i drop her off and she still says they havn't text back... so i ask her well if they wont text you back text them this because im starting to wonder if this is some other guy... i asked her to text "if this is some guy trying to get at me dont cuz i have a man"... she wouldnt... now the reason why im trippin is because she still thinks its okay to talk to her ex-boyfriend... and she was on dating sites that i saw her on... so let me know your advise about the situation...

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Comments ( 16 )
  • Aleks85

    With texting nowadays A LOT of girls want to have a back up man on speed dial, so they'll keep extra men in their stable in case you fuck up. It's a serious problem.

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    • blondbond69

      True

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  • honeybeee

    Usually it's the guy doing these things and the girl being sad:( I feel bad for u:( she probs is flirting with lots people

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    • Aleks85

      Usually? No, try again. Anybody can be a cheat lame ass dirt bag. I had an ex pull this shit. I'd drop her if I were u OP.

      I was stupid enough to put up with guys texting her and she'd keep her phone from me when I wanted to tell them I was her bf and to back off. Sluts man. Watch out.

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      • blondbond69

        From a girl's point, you're right. True

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        • Aleks85

          are you admitting to doing this? lol.

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  • blondbond69

    If she wont text him bbout u being hee Man she's cheating. Happens all the time. Know from experience. Ima bid. She's cheating sorry to say

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  • I just went through this exact thing man. I ASKED her to stop texting around me since we didn't get to much time together put of respect for me and our relationship. And she wouldn't. And I asked her to use a specific goodbye stating she was with her boyfriend. And she wouldn't.

    I say ask her to do it out of respect for you. If she won't, find someone else.

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    • blondbond69

      If she won't she's cheating

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  • My ex girlfriend stayed close with 3 of her ex boyfriends...made me crazy. So I flipped one of them off and told him what he could go do to his mother. That didn't help...at all.

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  • Look, dont get too upset about it. like lockets said, it coulda been a wrong number. i would be worried if my girlfriend was on a dating site though

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  • Lockets

    It could be just an innocent thing-a friend or a wrong number. Don't get too worked up about it.

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  • wowreally1986

    are you sure its been a year?

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  • hotchickie81

    How long have you two been together?

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    • afganniekush

      about a year

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  • get her into a room...
    and fuck her hard man!

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