Is it normal to get married to a man twice my age?

I am about to get married to a man who is 34 I am 18. He is not rich or extremely attractive he is just normal is it normal with our age difference.

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34% Normal
Based on 76 votes (26 yes)
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Comments ( 14 )
  • dork

    Trust me, he just wants you because your body is probably young, tight and fresh. If you have kids or get older with him he will drop you like a hot potato. Guys like your boyfriend like young fresh meat (the younger the better) it's a little sick. When I was 15, I had a 32 year old boyfriend and he used to say all the time that women his own age have flabby bodies from having kids and their skin wasn't soft and their pubes weren't soft. He liked me because my body was fresh and tight. I know it sounds disgusting but that's how alot of guys think. And with alot of these guys, their brain is stuck at 18 and they're very immature. Don't even bother asking him about this because he'll deny it. It's too creepy to admit to himself nevermind you. But if you want to keep him, don't give birth and save up for plasic surgury as you age.

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  • honestop

    You're cheating yourself by marrying young. Especially to someone so much older. You will miss out on so much. Also, it doesn't really sound like you're head over heels in love with the guy. I got married young and regret it! Go have fun and be 18!

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  • mysti446

    In my opinion 18 is too young to get married regardless of the age of the guy. Take time for yourself before committing to someone else.

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  • hmongazngurl

    well no offance but im going to say that its not really normal cause he is to old for you and its your choice if you should marry him or not

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  • hugabug

    I think it's perfectly normal, age is just a number afterall (:

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  • UnderDogg

    well if you guys are in love it should not matter. Only you can answer that. Love is all you need, John Lenon said that, he was shot in the back, very sad.

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  • runnergirl

    Being married, I would ask why the rush?! You're only 18! You have so much to discover before you close so many doors, as marriage does. I love being married, but you have to love being single first!

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  • Tamira

    It'S not exactly normal, but if you love him and are sure he loves you it does not have to be bad.
    - You are pretty young, though. - Maybe you should wait a bit longer before you marry. Give yourself and your relationship some more time to mature...

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  • HardcoreGuy

    It depends on ur needs, but i myself dont encourage young or early marriages.

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  • Mastersash

    YO open ur eyes and don't throw away you're life!! In fact, you should really get one.. gross.

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  • jethrotullfan2112

    Just look at it this way, you say he's 34. When you're 34, he'll be 50. And when you're 50, he'll be 66. That's an old man right there. He's old enough to be your father.

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  • Brittney99

    ^
    well he is Hispanic and I'm but white so that isn't a problem

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  • MiKeY_G

    Well I guess as long as your happy and don't mind that people will always think he's your father.

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  • jubi

    18 is a bit young to get married, no matter what the age difference.

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