Is it normal to get mad towards your bf most of the time?

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Hi, I love my bf very much. It's just that I always get mad at him if he says something wrongly which will leads my mind to think that he doesn't love me anymore. I can get angry with him over small matters. But I never shout at him or throw my temper. I just keep quiet and he will cheer me up and tell me everything is ok. Then I will discuss the problem with him if i still doubt what he says. After that, I am ok already. I never get mad with him for a long period. The most is a few hours. What I'm worrying here is he'll get tired of me someday if I continue to get angry over small matters or always misinterpret what he says and say that he don't love me anymore and we should break up so that he can find a better gf. Girls out there, am I normal? Do you girls get angry all the time over small matters too?

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  • Gold_Lion
    12 years ago

    I am the same way, especially when my bf and I have been drinking. He makes insensitive comments, I get oversensitive and react with a temper, but then we smooth things over. So I can relate to this. I don't think it's necessarily a great pattern though in a relationship. We are both trying to curb our bad habits as well as drinking.

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  • BoredGuy
    12 years ago

    Isn't this why men die younger?

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    I would say you need to learn that not every comment is an insult.

    have you considered therapy?

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  • miss_confused
    12 years ago

    Dear all, thanks for your advices. Yea... I agree with all of you... It's true that man will get tired of it. My past relationship wasn't successful which leads to my lack of trust in my current relationship. Its really hard. But I guess we girls have to learn how to be happy even without love. There are still friendship, family, career besides relationship in life. Good luck to all of you ! :)

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  • MrsBailey9
    12 years ago

    Not anymore. Time is too precious to let the little stuff get in the way. I have found that men do get tired of women who behave this way. Constantly getting upset over dumb little things and needing reassurance will wear a man down very quickly. I suggest you get your act together and grow up right quick! Pick your battles wisely, ask yourself is it really worth the fight? Most of the time the answer is NO.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Yes I think it's normal :)

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